"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spinning plates, two girls in the same class?

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These two girls are in the same class as me.

One is HB9 nice body but she looks high maintenance. I want to get to know her to see what shes about. I don't want to judge people just because the way they look.

Second is HB7 OK body but she has a personalty that I like, really down to earth.

Both girls I like and want to get to know them but we're in the same class together.

So my question to all you DJ out there is should I just date both of them and pretend like it's nothing. I don't want to have an awkward situation in class.

Any advice would be great. Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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uhhh...hmmm...I say choose one and then date the other at a later time
 
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what DonS said was pretty much perfect, do what you want, switch it up, even get another girl in that class into the mix, never limit yourself when youre single, do whatever you want when you want.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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