Spinning plates solves EVERY problem.

[spiegel549]

I have been on this site for a good while now. Reading thread after thread. Posting "problem" after "problem" about women I was dating. I finally snapped out of it and STOPPED investing all my time into ONE GIRL and spreading it out with AS MANY AS I COULD. I finally said fcuk it and started going out more. Hitting on every attractive female that walked past me in the malls,
restaurants, waiting in line at the bank. JUST SAY FCUK IT! You have NOTHING TO LOSE!!

I was hung up on a girl recently and all the great advice I have gotten on here the most important one could not of been more true.

Spin multiple plates and you will start to not care if one drops out of the picture.

I am now seeing 3 different attractive women right now. Banging 2 of them, and constantly receiving late night text photos ;-p

No matter what issue you have. No matter what problem you may think is really unique and need of special advice/guidance etc. The solution is simple. SPIN MULTIPLE PLATES!!!!!!!!!


-Spiegel

 

[Uncharted]

Yup that's why this sh!t is in the bible. You don't care about a single women flaking, rejecting you, or whatever when you have 1,2,3,4+ more willing to suck and fvck you whenever.

This is exactly how women feel - they have multiple options and don't feel bad about rejecting guys or doing what they want because they can!

 

[sigma335]

I don't think spinning plates solves every problem. I'm spinning plates and still get frustrated with women. I still have AA even though I've banged 10 different women over the last few months.

 

[mr. kennedy]

You want what you can't have.

 

[nismo-4]

Women always spin plates and never have a problem keeping at least ONE man interested. A woman can just lay back and get an offer.

Men can spin plates all day, but how many of these plates are going out with the men or f**king him or actually interested in him? A man has to actually be winning in order to be winning. As in, he has to have women to get women. A man can lay back to get an offer, and he might not get one for days.

Case closed.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Women always spin plates and never have a problem keeping at least ONE man interested. A woman can just lay back and get an offer.

Men can spin plates all day, but how many of these plates are going out with the men or f**king him or actually interested in him? A man has to actually be winning in order to be winning. As in, he has to have women to get women. A man can lay back to get an offer, and he might not get one for days.

Case closed.

Exactly. And spinning multiple plates with all the work involved isn't the solution per se. More often it is just the result of trying to pick up women. You have to wonder who is spinning who. Unless you are fvcking all your plates with little effort and fuss, then you are really just one of the female's spinning plates.

Also it assumes you already have the solution, ie. the ability to attract women, you just need apply it more. IMO if you can attract women then that's all that matters. When you want one go out and attract one and fvck her.

I might approach or try to game 20 women before I end up fvcking one. But except the one, I don't consider any of the others plates really. I only have one that is biting or "spinning" and the rest were never really spinning in the first place.

 

[Decoy]

Not to say that the OP is a keyboard jockey, I highly doubt spinning plates is as easy as everyone suggests. It's like telling a guy who got dumped by his LTR to....Go **** Ten Other Women.

Ideal? Yes. Realistic? Fvck no.

Unless you want to spin HB5's this entire thread is worthless.

 

[yyc12]

I wouldn't say the thread is useless. I have a modified version. I am in an exclusive relationship, so only date one girl, my GF. HOWEVER, I am always making mental (and sometimes written) notes about my options. For example, I know at any given time a handful of women I would be iterested in dating, should I suddenly become single. I make sure to spend some time chatting these women up, whenever our paths cross, to keep things easy going and familiar.


I always try and put my best foot forward when I see these women, and some subtle flirting doesn't hurt.

Am I taken? Currently. But that may change, and I want good rapport with other options should I need them.

I've done this in the past as well...keeping women on the radar. Only problem is that very rarely do these women end up being single when I became single again, lol.

 

[yyc12]

Spinning plates to me is just too much work. The older you get the more you have to search for single women, let alone do the leg work after finally get to identifying them. If you're actually ok with having a single "plate" vanish and being alone then there's no need to spin plates just for the sake of it.

 

[Zarky]

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/10/21/rule-3-date-lots-of-women-always/

 

[Bible_Belt]

There's a long thread in Mature Man about my gf moving out. As soon as I started talking to (and fvcking) my bpd ex, the gf did a complete 180 in regard to her attitude. Three months ago she moved out; now she wants to spend every night together. She is asleep in my bed right now.