"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spinning Plates is the Universal Solution To 99.998 of Problems With Gaming Women?

verysuave

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Would you say spinning plates is the best solution for MOST situation?

1. Kills oneities
2. Feel confident at all times knowing another chick likes you even after you get dumped by others
3. You really start CARING LESS about little BS women give you? (the real "i dont care attitude" comes out?)
4. Everything you do,say, in terms of passing all the sh1t tests, becomes natural?
5. Feel less nervous, because you don't care.. specially when you have replacements

Is this what it really feels like? anyone done or currently doing this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pretty much. Don't forget it doesn't make you look desperate, you'll be less available, hence unpredictable.
 

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verysuave said:
Would you say spinning plates is the best solution for MOST situation?

1. Kills oneities
2. Feel confident at all times knowing another chick likes you even after you get dumped by others
3. You really start CARING LESS about little BS women give you? (the real "i dont care attitude" comes out?)
4. Everything you do,say, in terms of passing all the sh1t tests, becomes natural?
5. Feel less nervous, because you don't care.. specially when you have replacements

Is this what it really feels like? anyone done or currently doing this?
1-5 is correct. I know this all too well because it reminds me when i was messing around with 7 girls at one time lol. It was pretty difficult being on the phone with one HB8 and then saying Hold on because HB8.5 was calling on the other line. haha. good times.
 

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1. Kills oneities
2. Feel confident at all times knowing another chick likes you even after you get dumped by others
3. You really start CARING LESS about little BS women give you? (the real "i dont care attitude" comes out?)
4. Everything you do,say, in terms of passing all the sh1t tests, becomes natural?
5. Feel less nervous, because you don't care.. specially when you have replacements
1, 2, and 5 are problems for me, since well, I don't have "other girls who like me", "replacements", or otherwise. That mindset is hard to achieve, when despite your best efforts, all evidence points to every woman out there having zero interest in you as a man.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would definatley have to agree with this.
 
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Couldn't agree more.. Very true and it allows you to not appear clingy/oneitis because you honestly can't.

There is nothing wrong with "dating" around.. and there are a TON of benefits..

I think the mistake a lot of guys (including myself) make is when we meet a girl and there is a good spark, we naturally want just that one person. Ultimately it is better to take things slowly and actually get to know the girl and if you all are compatible..
 
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