thirdtimescharm
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When it rains, it pours...
Plate #1) Been seeing since we met in November. Things heated up in a big way in December. Flight Attendant, 50. Married, but separated. Just wants someone to see when she's in town. She seemed to get a little overly-attached, so I put a little space between us. But we're getting together tonight.
Plate #2) Met in October for lunch. 41, a hairstylist trainer. Then silence until November. She was"involved" but it didn't work. I put her off...until the beginning of the year. We spent 3 nights together, and some random dinners. She said "no commitments for 6 months" and then went a little dark on me, but still seems to be in the mix now again. I'm ok with things slow and steady.
Date #3) Met in October, had a few g-rated dates. A real sweetheart, 41, Opera singer/music teacher. We've kept in touch after I told her I was "too busy" to date, and then through most of January she was sick and actually so was I (combination strep/bronchitis). She was the aggressor here, asking me out even after I was totally unsure if she was interested. We are meeting up again this upcoming Wednesday.
Date #4) Saw her profile on POF many months back. 41, a professional organizer. I'm very attracted to her, both intellectually stimulating and physically. Favorited her back then, because I saw she never logged in. She did log in, end of January, saw my profile, and wrote to me simply saying how she liked what I had written. We met Wednesday, a drink, some chat. Two days later, I asked her out to see a movie (one I wanted to see). We went, had some more time to chat. She did some very thoughtful things for -me- but at the end, all I got was a cheek. Text this morning, good banter, and I said there's a girl, big brown eyes, cute short haircut, and I just wonder how good a kisser she is. She replied, "go slow and I'm sure you will find out." As long as the behavior is consistent and she's willing to do things I choose, slow it is.
So I'm pretty happy with all that. All of these women, in a addition to being low drama in my life, are "my type" physically speaking. In fact, I've NEVER been in a position to be dating four women at the same time who all turn me on like this. It's almost overwhelming. I feel like simply deciding to stick with what I like and rejecting everything else has opened up some kind of a flood.
#5) And last weekend at a Super Bowl party, minding my own business, made no overtures, and yet there was a friend of a friend of mine who I barely spoke to who slipped me her card. So I added her on linkedin, and we have since exchanged a couple of short emails, mostly writing about nothing. In the last one, she said "would love to meet up some time."
So #5 is not close to cracking the list above, but I'd hate to sever future considerations, as she seems nice and genuine enough. But I honestly don't have the time or energy to see her now, or soon. So what's a good response?
Plate #1) Been seeing since we met in November. Things heated up in a big way in December. Flight Attendant, 50. Married, but separated. Just wants someone to see when she's in town. She seemed to get a little overly-attached, so I put a little space between us. But we're getting together tonight.
Plate #2) Met in October for lunch. 41, a hairstylist trainer. Then silence until November. She was"involved" but it didn't work. I put her off...until the beginning of the year. We spent 3 nights together, and some random dinners. She said "no commitments for 6 months" and then went a little dark on me, but still seems to be in the mix now again. I'm ok with things slow and steady.
Date #3) Met in October, had a few g-rated dates. A real sweetheart, 41, Opera singer/music teacher. We've kept in touch after I told her I was "too busy" to date, and then through most of January she was sick and actually so was I (combination strep/bronchitis). She was the aggressor here, asking me out even after I was totally unsure if she was interested. We are meeting up again this upcoming Wednesday.
Date #4) Saw her profile on POF many months back. 41, a professional organizer. I'm very attracted to her, both intellectually stimulating and physically. Favorited her back then, because I saw she never logged in. She did log in, end of January, saw my profile, and wrote to me simply saying how she liked what I had written. We met Wednesday, a drink, some chat. Two days later, I asked her out to see a movie (one I wanted to see). We went, had some more time to chat. She did some very thoughtful things for -me- but at the end, all I got was a cheek. Text this morning, good banter, and I said there's a girl, big brown eyes, cute short haircut, and I just wonder how good a kisser she is. She replied, "go slow and I'm sure you will find out." As long as the behavior is consistent and she's willing to do things I choose, slow it is.
So I'm pretty happy with all that. All of these women, in a addition to being low drama in my life, are "my type" physically speaking. In fact, I've NEVER been in a position to be dating four women at the same time who all turn me on like this. It's almost overwhelming. I feel like simply deciding to stick with what I like and rejecting everything else has opened up some kind of a flood.
#5) And last weekend at a Super Bowl party, minding my own business, made no overtures, and yet there was a friend of a friend of mine who I barely spoke to who slipped me her card. So I added her on linkedin, and we have since exchanged a couple of short emails, mostly writing about nothing. In the last one, she said "would love to meet up some time."
So #5 is not close to cracking the list above, but I'd hate to sever future considerations, as she seems nice and genuine enough. But I honestly don't have the time or energy to see her now, or soon. So what's a good response?
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