"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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intha_burbz

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hey guys have u ever played spin the bottle? I have many times. The game works bets when theres 4-8 people. It also works when there wild party girls and a bit drunk. i remember playing with mild mannered girls and remmeber saying " hey r u girs up for a wild game". this peaks theyre curiosity and makes them interested. they also dont want to be a lame conservative girl and want to be the party wild girl thats down for anything. Just at thought. its a fun sugeestion when ur bored
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This game only works when It's me and 15 single, hot girls.

Guys are not invited.

Seriously though, it depends on the delivery of the invitation. If you say it meekly, as if you're thinking "OMG, girls, maybe i can get a kiss?" then you won't win.

Say it like they WANT to kiss you, and you're just giving them a socially acceptable reason to do so, and you'll win.

Good idea, it's a bit juvenile, but as I said, it's all in the delivery :)

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i played it with the girl who me and her had a thing for each other.. and 3 other people... it kept going back between me and her... and eventually we HAD to do body kissing... nothing too much... we never kissed before.. so it got the job done... thats the night i asked her to homecoming tho.. and she said she will...

to bad i never got that real kiss.. and me and her stopped talking about 3 weeks ago.. i dunno how she even feels anymore.
 
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