"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spin the bottle

Le killeur

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Hey guys just wanted to throw this one out there, what are your thoughts on games of spin the bottle at parties that are purely make out?

Was at a party a couple of days ago and notice alot of people playing it and they were trying to get me involved by girls saying it landed on you etc, you've gotta make out with blah blah, anyway i decided not to play it, just not into making out with a girl maybe 4 times who's got off with my bro's maybe the same about of times. Also this could add to that hard to get sort of attitude

Anyway just wondering, thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has BB.com had a mass cull of posters?
 

Le killeur

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How about you stay away from the thread if you don't want to answer? Instead of being some condescending pretentious tw@t? Get a life fella's just a general thought on it
 

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Take it to the High School forum.. I am sure there is PLENTY of advice there on the matter...In fact I think that is all they talk about over there.
 
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