"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spiky hair style...

shydude

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Sup, i been using gel for the past 12 months, also it messes up the hair,. is there any other cosmetics that will lift my hair? like some kind of suff other than gel?

PLease help me out here, couse im really not experienced with all the cosmetics and ****, thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thick or thin hair? The thicker it gets, the higher you should go on the number line. Really thick hair can use 12 glue which isn't as wet, but holds all day and washes out fine.


There are gels that don't screw up your hair... read the labels.
http://www.haircutsformen.org/

Works good.
 

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I often times buzz my hair down to about a 4 on the clippers. I'm not sure if thats 1/2 or a 1/4 inch. Anyways, Right after i get out of the shower, its spiked, looks pretty sweet. I just shake my head to get the huge drops of water off, and then spray some hair spray on it.
 

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Thanks for help. and my hair is thick, will chek out the web page u gave me
 

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clippers are usually measured in eighths of an inch (in the US anyhow), so a 4 is 4/8 = 1/2 inch.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That seems about right. 1/2 inch. It usually looks the best between 3/8-1/2 inch for me
 
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