"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^^Someone ban this troll. He is promoting his adult site.
 

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Hold on. Don't ban him yet. It says free. Free is good. Even if it's his site, if it's free and good, then there is no money made and it's cool.

It's like me and you creating a dating site to meet chicks and it's free. I'll give that one a try and see if it's reaaaaaaaaaaaalllly free.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HIS SITE said:
Membership is free and is not time-limited. However you should keep your profile up-to-date and expose communication activity. Every profile is thoroughly checked before joining the system. Now just fill our forms and complete your registration.
So it's in AdultFriendFinder format but is free just like www.plentyoffish.com ... Good idea!

Besides, that link in his sig don't mean he own the site. But what a nice find.
 
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