"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spenting too much time with a girl?

Budda57

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I met this girl last weekend at a party. I got her number. So I called her, on tuesday. We ended up going out that night and having really good time. She is into running and I'm a runner too. We we plan to meet for a run on Thursday. The run went fine and all. We end up going out that night to a jazz bar, good times. Now she call me today and ask me if I want to go out again tonight. Is there such a thing as spending too much time together in the begin of a relationship? Any suggestion.



P.S. - I just got another call while writing this message from another girl. What girl shoud I go out with? :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Macgyver

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Why don't you go fart in her face and then come back with real questions.
 

DasaniWater

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hey

I think their is....... because sometimes my GF tells me to go away.. i think im too available..
 

Cloud-uk

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What?! Yes, of course there is! It's called being clingy. Try playing a little hard to get for chrissakes:cuss:!!!!
 

coolguy676767

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yes there is too much at the beginning of a relationship, tell her that you are busy tonight but you had a good time and say that you will call her next week about setting something up either during the week or during the weekend.

Becuase if you go out tonight then chances are your conversations may run short or be boring because you have already talked about a lot of stuff so far this week.

So I would recommend not going out with her tonight, you could even go out with her the next day, but I say early next week would be good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Budda57

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Thanks guys! I'm just getting back into the whole dating thing.
 
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