"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spent all night dancing, need advice on making a move

Bricka

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So I was dancing pretty much all night with a girl I know. Dancing, grinding, slow dancing. Lots of kino going on. I didn't make my move then though, for one reason of another.

I'll be seeing her in a few days and need some advice on how to make my move. I'll be taking her skiing and will be going with a few friends. How would you go about getting that first kiss? I know I could just do it anytime but I'm wondering if anyone has any better ideas?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you could pull out the oldschool trick and tell her "close your eyes" and then lay one on her... Never tried this one myself, but lots of others have.


But I would just be playful and go from there... Snowball fight could be nice... Hit her (gently) with a snowball toss and after the battle is over give her a hug "I'm sorry, lets make up" or like "truce" or something and then kiss her cheek... then kiss her cheek again :cool: then get that look. you know the look... and kiss her for real.

or riding up the ski lift should give some opportunity. Just always be playful, and fun about things, girls respond way better when its FUN... Riding up the lift be like "I'm scared of hights, i have to hold you" and throw your arm around her or whatever.. anything in the playful direction will serve you well.
 

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Randallpink83 said:
you could pull out the oldschool trick and tell her "close your eyes" and then lay one on her... Never tried this one myself, but lots of others have.


But I would just be playful and go from there... Snowball fight could be nice... Hit her (gently) with a snowball toss and after the battle is over give her a hug "I'm sorry, lets make up" or like "truce" or something and then kiss her cheek... then kiss her cheek again :cool: then get that look. you know the look... and kiss her for real.

or riding up the ski lift should give some opportunity. Just always be playful, and fun about things, girls respond way better when its FUN... Riding up the lift be like "I'm scared of hights, i have to hold you" and throw your arm around her or whatever.. anything in the playful direction will serve you well.
Nice nice, I like this. Thanks for the ideas! Keep 'em coming!
Also , how would you go about isolating her from the rest of the group? I dont want to be transparent and have the other guys wreck my game so I need something subtle.
 

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Bricka said:
Nice nice, I like this. Thanks for the ideas! Keep 'em coming!
Also , how would you go about isolating her from the rest of the group? I dont want to be transparent and have the other guys wreck my game so I need something subtle.
Dude, screw that, Pick her up and throw her in the snow and yell "SNOW ANGEL TIME!!!" then fvck the sh!t out of her right in front of everybody. :rockon:

just playin, but yeah you obviously have to isolate her, I thought you were taking her on a date. Just you two.

Thats just gonna be up to you as it will more then likely be situational. Just be cool about it, and make it fun as always. :yes:
Maybe someone else here will have some good isolation tactics.



p.s. They would probably call that a Snow Devil though, don't you think?... Hah thats my newest goal, Find a girl at the ski slopes and snow devil her!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll be trying these out when I get up there, no doubt. I'm not missing an opportunity!

You're right though about isolating being situational.
Lets get a bit technical here. I danced alot with her, that means I gave her a lot of attention. Should I do a freeze out for a little bit or would that just jeopardize things? We'll only be there for a few hours.
 
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