"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spent all day with her, annoyed now!!

baurman

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So I spent all day with this freakin chick and now I'm super annoyed. She made it clear that some things I did annoyed her too like when I was talking to a girl on the phone (even though I made it clear to the chick I spent time with that Im not looking for a relationship, so who cares if i talk to girls) and she was mad cause I was texting on my phone a lot. One thing that pissed me off is when we went to Hollister and she went into the dressing room, she was in there for ****in like 30 minutes!! jesus. I still want to keep her on the side to fvck her, but she wouldn't kiss me on the lips now and only on the cheeks so I dunno what more I could do to get to fck her again. Maybe we' re just becoming "friends"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guy Incognito

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hah, that sucks when that happens. the smallest stupidest things just bug you and you can't get over it.

dump her.
 

Illusionist

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Don't act so damn rude on ur date nigga. You seriously had the audacity to talk to ANOTHER ***** on ur date! wow...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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