"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spent all day with her, annoyed now!!

baurman

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So I spent all day with this freakin chick and now I'm super annoyed. She made it clear that some things I did annoyed her too like when I was talking to a girl on the phone (even though I made it clear to the chick I spent time with that Im not looking for a relationship, so who cares if i talk to girls) and she was mad cause I was texting on my phone a lot. One thing that pissed me off is when we went to Hollister and she went into the dressing room, she was in there for ****in like 30 minutes!! jesus. I still want to keep her on the side to fvck her, but she wouldn't kiss me on the lips now and only on the cheeks so I dunno what more I could do to get to fck her again. Maybe we' re just becoming "friends"?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guy Incognito

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hah, that sucks when that happens. the smallest stupidest things just bug you and you can't get over it.

dump her.
 

Illusionist

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Don't act so damn rude on ur date nigga. You seriously had the audacity to talk to ANOTHER ***** on ur date! wow...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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