"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spending time on the internet will not help your progress, only hurt it.

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The internet gives people comfort.. THey can hide their insecurities, they can prevent being judged or criticized for who they are-- They can get instant gratification and validation from strangers, They can fake lifestyles to gain some of this validation that keeps them stagnant in the real world but makes them feel short bursts of joy etc.

But what the internet does is take away your discipline, take away from learning real world skills-- slowly makes you weaker, more lazy, and programs your mind into a cynical perspective of the world, of women, of men, -- it makes you compare yourself to others.

The greatest advicde i can give you losers is get off this forum and all other forums or places on the net you spend time and start living in the real world.. In just 5 months your life will change for the better.. Delete all your apps on your phone, keep some for fitness/nutrition/investing/business.. thats all

Elminate your entire friend circle and keep only the top 20% of people who really care about u and show u love.

RazorRambo, out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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