spending money on plates that aren’t LTR worthy?

[qallus]

what are yalls thoughts on spending money on a plate that wouldn’t be a candidate for an LTR? in my specific situation idk if she qualifies as a plate as this will be the second date, and i’m new to the forum. don’t knew the definition.

anyway i was gonna do mini golf then cook her dinner at my place. cheap yes, but even still am i just wasting money? i’m interested in the sex and i assume she needs something out of me as well, as all relationships are inherently transactional.

not to sound egotistical, but does simply being in the presence of a high value man do anything for them, or do you almost always need to spend some money for them to put out without them feeling like they are easy?

edit: similar, bringing flowers to a plate, bad idea? is that generally reserved for LTRs? i find it difficult to navigate a middle ground between traditional and modern dating.

 

[CornbreadFed]

1). What makes you a strong and independent woman I mean high value man?

2). Get off Fresh and Fit.

 

[ValiantMale]

There's nothing wrong with spending money on a plate, friends, coworkers, colleagues, new clients, etc. It's really the scope of what the situation is that makes it a good idea or bad idea.. Ie: you just meet a woman and weeks in you're buying her expensive gifts.

I mean if you're taking her out-- it kinda falls on you as a man to wine and dine her.. It can make some girls feel bad if you tell the waiter separate or can we split the check or pay for only your half of mini golf.. It shouldn't even feel good as a man, unless you're strapped for cash. I would imagine if you pursued her enough to take her out on a date, you probably see some redeeming qualities in her.. If she's a random girl from online dating, I probably wouldn't go all out on her.

1). What makes you a strong and independent woman I mean high value man?

2). Get off Fresh and Fit.

haha almost lost it at the Fresh and Fit reference.. Man that podcast is wild! I watched a handful of episodes at one point.. It was like watching two scorned nerds talk about women to women. I think Myron is doing more political stuff now last I've seen.

 

[qallus]

1). What makes you a strong and independent woman I mean high value man?

2). Get off Fresh and Fit.

i know you’re just ragebaiting but since you asked, i make almost six figures at 21. 6 foot, muscular, fairly good looking. good genetics. i take care of myself. i live alone. i have a stable career with great benefits. i know how to cook. sure i dont compare to you guys with decades of experience on me but in my demographic i do quite well.

now consider staying on topic instead of asking meaningless questions? also, never heard of your podcast. everything i’ve learned came from redpill university on spotify. whether or not that’s outdated, i wouldn’t know.

 

[BaronOfHair]

what are yalls thoughts on spending money on a plate that wouldn’t be a candidate for an LTR?

If you're in the market for a mansion in Beverly Hills, try really hard to resist all urges to be a cheapskate, by putting down cash on a tenement room in Watts

 

[The Duke]

what are yalls thoughts on spending money on a plate that wouldn’t be a candidate for an LTR? in my specific situation idk if she qualifies as a plate as this will be the second date, and i’m new to the forum. don’t knew the definition.

anyway i was gonna do mini golf then cook her dinner at my place. cheap yes, but even still am i just wasting money? i’m interested in the sex and i assume she needs something out of me as well, as all relationships are inherently transactional.

not to sound egotistical, but does simply being in the presence of a high value man do anything for them, or do you almost always need to spend some money for them to put out without them feeling like they are easy?

edit: similar, bringing flowers to a plate, bad idea? is that generally reserved for LTRs? i find it difficult to navigate a middle ground between traditional and modern dating.

I never viewed things as wasting money if I was having a good time. Do things because you want to do them and its enjoyable, not because you care what someone else might think or what you might gain.

Your belief that you need to spend money on someone so they see you in a sexual light is extremely off. And I don't recommend giving flowers to someone you barely know. It will make them feel uncomfortable and too much, too early.

Work on building a social/mental connection, not a financial one. Your "transactional" mindset will hinder your progress.

 

[CornbreadFed]

i know you’re just ragebaiting but since you asked, i make almost six figures at 21. 6 foot, muscular, fairly good looking. good genetics. i take care of myself. i live alone. i have a stable career with great benefits. i know how to cook. sure i dont compare to you guys with decades of experience on me but in my demographic i do quite well.

now consider staying on topic instead of asking meaningless questions? also, never heard of your podcast. everything i’ve learned came from redpill university on spotify. whether or not that’s outdated, i wouldn’t know.

First, I asked a question. Second, you made a bold statement regarding your age and grammar, so it needed justification. Now, addressing what you mentioned, I wouldn’t spend money on a girl if I’ve already ruled out the possibility of a long-term relationship. There are more efficient ways to pursue casual encounters.

 

[MatureDJ]

what are yalls thoughts on spending money on a plate that wouldn’t be a candidate for an LTR? in my specific situation idk if she qualifies as a plate as this will be the second date, and i’m new to the forum. don’t knew the definition.

anyway i was gonna do mini golf then cook her dinner at my place. cheap yes, but even still am i just wasting money? i’m interested in the sex and i assume she needs something out of me as well, as all relationships are inherently transactional.

not to sound egotistical, but does simply being in the presence of a high value man do anything for them, or do you almost always need to spend some money for them to put out without them feeling like they are easy?

edit: similar, bringing flowers to a plate, bad idea? is that generally reserved for LTRs? i find it difficult to navigate a middle ground between traditional and modern dating.

I pretty much quit spending if she is not LTR material - and quickly quit wanting to stick in not too long thereafter (it takes a little while for the Big Head to control the Little Head).

 

[MatureDJ]

i know you’re just ragebaiting but since you asked, i make almost six figures at 21. 6 foot, muscular, fairly good looking. good genetics. i take care of myself. i live alone. i have a stable career with great benefits. i know how to cook. sure i dont compare to you guys with decades of experience on me but in my demographic i do quite well.

now consider staying on topic instead of asking meaningless questions? also, never heard of your podcast. everything i’ve learned came from redpill university on spotify. whether or not that’s outdated, i wouldn’t know.

If what you describe yourself is accurate, you are Chad-tier.

 

[Desdinova]

anyway i was gonna do mini golf then cook her dinner at my place. cheap yes, but even still am i just wasting money?

I always took plates out to do things that I enjoyed doing. If she's gone in two weeks, it doesn't matter because I had a good time.

If you're trying to impress her by doing things that she likes, then it's a waste of money. If you do things that you like, then it's not a waste.