"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Speer's Edge: "No Refunds" Opener

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Go direct into set. Don't worry about the size of the set, it does not matter how small or how big the set it.

Say:
Hi, listen we're going to get right through the unpleasantness's. My girl always says I should meet interesting people. You guys are interesting right?

let the set answer

Thank god! finally interesting people. Well maybe this one is (Pointing at an obstacle) but I don't know about the rest of you.

*EDGE KINO - the obstacle nearest you put your arm around and slowly slip it off. This will create the vibe that you are a touchy feely kinda guy.*

Stack forward.

Neg:
Don't be little ****s
Point at your target and tell her you haven't heard one interesting thing form her yet.

Enjoy & Please leave some feedback!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very nice but...are you saying slvts when you censor ****s? Seems kinda messed up lol. Sounds funny though.
 

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Hahahaa "dont be little slvts".

Lol im pretty sure hes not trying to say slvts.
 

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I can tell you now that trying this stuff straight off the bat with strangers will just give you weird looks.

The best way to view this opener is if I was a girl and a guy came up to me.
I don't even know his name, he's touching me and trying to be ****y.. it would be an O..K.... moment.

It's just C&F with nothing else which wouldn't go down well at all with women who think they're the shi7.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Accension said:
I can tell you now that trying this stuff straight off the bat with strangers will just give you weird looks.

The best way to view this opener is if I was a girl and a guy came up to me.
I don't even know his name, he's touching me and trying to be ****y.. it would be an O..K.... moment.

It's just C&F with nothing else which wouldn't go down well at all with women who think they're the shi7.
First using abbreviations like C&F (****y Funny) is weird. You need to understand anything can work.

Besides, I always welcome opinions although this specific opener has gotten massive praise and results for love systems, phaseshiftlounge, and area51 members, plus I am sure as members of this forum start using Speer Edge Tactics the results are amazing.

Before you knock stuff go out and try it. Then I am sure everyone will welcome your critique.

My two cents.
 

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Speer Method said:
First using abbreviations like C&F (****y Funny) is weird. You need to understand anything can work.

Besides, I always welcome opinions although this specific opener has gotten massive praise and results for love systems, phaseshiftlounge, and area51 members, plus I am sure as members of this forum start using Speer Edge Tactics the results are amazing.

Before you knock stuff go out and try it. Then I am sure everyone will welcome your critique.

My two cents.
Learn to natural game, my three cents.
 

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Accension said:
Learn to natural game, my three cents.
(3 cents? Dont copy, be original! Isnt that what it means to be natural?) :moon: haha
^---just messing with you cause I can.

Do you mean game naturally? that's what the Speer Method is all about with the exception we teach you how to build a solid lifestyle so women can naturally come into your life and you don't have to run around doing cold approach like 98% of the community. You see to get good at anything it takes knowledge, practice, and experience. Here are the steps in case you don't know...

First you learn and you don't copy.
Second You create your own style from experience.
Third be original with your sound bytes and material.(We all have sound bytes created through social condition and pattern formation in daily interactions)
Fourth you practice until results are solid and everything is congruent.

This is how you start becoming natural at anything.

Take Olympic athletes for example. First they learn the sport, then study others, then get coached, then they practice. At this point their style is just like their coach. So what makes someone great and unique? They get so much experience that they start developing their own style, their own form. Why you ask? because they are becoming natural. They have learned what works for them and what doesn't through time, knowledge, dedication and experience.

Basically what your saying is "dont study the whole science from all the top guys". Just study one method. Do you know what would happen? Thats like saying everything Freud ever said is 100% and we shouldn't listen to other psychologist that contributed to today science. Scarcity is an idiotic way to think. I assure you. Now Im not saying listen to everyone because there is alot of garbage out there and alot of self proclaimed "gurus" which rehash or give bad info, but definitely listen to the big names because we all got stuff to contribute to your game. Specially if its FREE. :confused:

This is another problem with forums. You got guys with no background, no names, no experience trying to give advice like they are an authority. You see in our little community there are only around 10 to 20 big names. These big names are listed in magazines, they are on tv, super conferences and have earned stripes infield. 90% of this names like Mystery, AFC Adam, Badboy, Sinn, Savoy and many more have also vouched about what I teach and the results my students get. (OMG I am validating myself, but this Mystery said its not good to do. LMAO) You could try to say something about that except you will just be another fanboy gone wrong. Now lets look at whats happening here: Speer (me, ranked top 10 in the world) starts giving FREE info. You complain and say it doesn't work but you haven't gone out and tried it. Weak! :kick: Meanwhile there is a community of people much bigger then this one that have tried it and praised this specific tactic. Whats wrong with this picture? anyone? :trouble:

Its ok if you like the Marketing BS "Be Natural" but its just marketing bud. Let me get you caught up on what the community is about because you are obviously pretty new and dont know much. The community is a bunch of men coming together to learn how to be better in social situations and how to be more suav with women.(ie: become natural in social scenarios with women) We share information and try to help each other through our successes and failures. Once in a while you get keyboard jockeys that has to knock others to make themselves feel better. This is because they are not getting solid results. This guys also attempt to praise themselves in the eyes of a bunch of guys by saying "this is the best way because I had a success" lol :nono: I'll give you another FREE hint you better not care what guys think unless your gay ofcurse. Worry about the women.

Im hear to help. ANYTHING I post has been field tested for years by many people and gets solid results otherwise I would not post it. You are here to market what you believe has worked for you (single person) or complain about others material when you haven't even gone out and tried it. Something is really wrong with your mind frame. We have to different agendas.

With that being said

Good Luck to You on your path to becoming "natural"

Rock on:rockon:
 
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lol, na

"little shyts"
Lmfao "little shyts"?? Even funnier! lol. Nice...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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