"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Speer's Edge: "Marriage" *Kino

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This is one of the funnest things to do. Keep in mind you can use anything to recall the kino escalation once you preform the marriage ceremony.

Step 1: Tell your target:
"We are going to get married. All we have to do is dance around in a circle 3 times."
*You can also improvise whatever kino you want in order to preform the marriage ceremony. (ie: hop on one foot 3 times, ect..)

Step 2: Tell the obstacle/wing to be the priest/rabbi. You can ask your target if she is Jewish or Christian.
* You have to tell the obstacle/wing that once you are done dancing around in 3 circles that they may announce you husband and wife)

Step 3: Take your targets hand and dance around in 3 circles around the obstacle/wing/table whatever.

Step 4: The target/wing will announce you husband and wife.

SPEER'S EDGE
Step 5: You say: "I may now kiss the bride"

Step 6: Place both your hands on either side of her head and move forward to kiss close.
*If she moves her head just kiss her cheek. Move back, turn your head and tell her to kiss yours.

Have fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hah that's cool, should try it one time. It;'s kind of like the "Hey you're going to be my girlfriend for the next 5 minutes" line.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speer Method

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Any of the tactics I post here are open for translation. You should make them your own and come up with something that fits your style, stories, and beliefs.

Let us know what you come up and how it works for you. This is a community of men trying to help others by experimenting, testing and moving forward. Thats how every great science grows.

Peace
 

eaglez1177

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This is kinda risky cuz if your not good at it and she doesnt really go along, your gonna wind up embarassing yourself big time and ur gonna look like a total dumbass.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There's gotta be easier ways lol... Nevertheless a witty/funny pickup.
 

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This Speer guy posts about a few free sessions to get you on board then charges $1,000 and up on his site for seminars and even as high as $4,000. That's what we call bait and switch. He's a salesman. His methods have to be unique and different, otherwise he'd have no sales pitch. The free videos on his site consists of some random person interviewing him about his seduction skills. I'd like to know who these "random" people are and why we're not seeing footage of him putting his skills to use. It's like the Kevin Trudeau infomercials where he talks about his crap. You buy his books, they have no substance, then he directs you to his website where you have to spend further money to get the information (which is info anyone can obtain on the internet).

These people have no interest in helping anyone but themselves. They prey on desperate people who don't know any better, and take their money in the process.
 

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I forgot... everything he posts has been "field tested" thousands of times by his "students". :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't have a response to this thread,only a question...

Is this you?
 

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chad2k5 said:
I forgot... everything he posts has been "field tested" thousands of times by his "students" :crackup:
I like the sig:

Winner of the Best PUA LifeStyle Award Wat?
Rated Top 10 Best PUA's Worldwide by TSB Magazine. Tubesteak boogie mag? Sounds interesting, tell me more Speers.
Labeled "The New Hitch" by WB What the hell is WB? And Hitch went totally AFC in the movie.
 
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