"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Speed Seduction

missingcure

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Any active speed seduction users here? Is the course really worth a couple hundred bucks?
Seeing as how the cds look like they're from a good 10 years ago or so, isn't the material going to be outdated since SS seems to always be improving over the years? Maybe it's time they make a new basic home study course.. but damn, the website sounds so impressive I keep thinking about putting down $370 for the full course.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jariel

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Maybe it varies person to person, but I tried speed seduction and it was the most destructive and useless thing I've learned. I drove away and freaked out a number of women (who were actually quite interested in me up until then). I even had a girl refer to me as "slimy" and a "snake", which are probably the most insulting things I've ever been called...all thanks to speed seduction.
 

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I'm an active speed seducer. It is a great tool, but you need to put in the work if you want to assimilate it and incorporate it succesfully into your game. If you have the money, it is definately worth the investment, imho, if you think that you'll be willing to get out there and fail a couple of times until you get it right.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats different than paying for it than the SS methods in the bible?
 

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I've pulled a few girls with SS. No sweet and homely girls, only hoes who liked to hear bad words.

The funny thing is though, you can pull SS without words, actions speak for themselves, you can even get her to lead into the SS structuring. She'll pull off the weasel phrases, and you finish off with a quick anchor.

SS is simply a ploy on words. It's another social dynamics, M3, or gunwitch.

I haven't met a single girl that didn't see straight through my attempts. They all recognized, and perked up when the words cam from my mouth. I'd throw in a "did you hear me?" and they'd give me a sly smile. Than I'd turn to a guy and say "dude, this girl is hott" and she'd start to laugh.

I feel sleazy doing it yeah, but thats the male ***** inside of me speaking. The other girls for some reason or another didn't notice a damned thing, I take it along with my tea, and say that they are listening to a normal conversation.

The only reason I love SS is because at the same time you are vibing with the girl, your also telling her you like to talk dirty.
 
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It's bad if your stupid and don't know how to use it and you let it be your primary game instead of mastering attraction fundamentals. Its a form of storytelling if you do it right.

By the way...I've seen Tyler Durdin defend SS.


And for God sakes, dont spend too much time on here unless your reading the bible or searching for something.
 

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Did this over the weekend..

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
Or you can dl a p2p program and "borrow" all of that ish for free and send me the 370 bones.

Something about a donkey . . . Happy hunting
I took your advice friday and
Scored some of this over the weekend...... I don't know how well it'll work, but it just cost me less than the David D. stuff.......lol

I never even thought about looking this stuff up on there..... Guess I'm too honest..... I wonder if that'll get in my way with SS? -----lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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