Speed Dating

[brownlover]

Hi

I am going to start to do speed dating. But I am very bad at talking to women. What is best method to chat to women. You have 4 mins, how do i impress the girl in that time?

 

[picard]

I learned from previous speed dating events that you should ask the ladies more questions instead of telling them about you.

You can tell them your name, occupation, age, 1 dislike, 1 like (baseball). food (Italian).

Then you should ask them unusual questions:

1/ are you an extrovert or introvert. It makes the ladies think.

2/ Do like to go on romatic vacation with significant other or go alone. At this point, you should watch the woman body language closely. If she looks directly into your eyes and plays with her hair then, she might be interest in you. Other wise, she expects you to ask more questions.

Most importantly, You shouldn't talk too quickly despite the time limit. You must always watch her body language such as the way she moves her hands in holding a pen or a beer, the way she crosses her legs, she plays with her hair using her fingers and if she looks away while she talks to you, it means you lost her interest.

 

[VSIDEBOY]

Speed dating is great for getting used to talking to women that you don't know if you are unable to approach in the street or in bars as you already know that all (or most) of the girls there are looking to meet up with someone.

I've done it once and found it alot more fun than I had originally thought it would be, It was ages ago and I was quite nervous at the begining but after you've spoken to a few girls already then you know roughly what they will ask you and you can just have a laugh.

When I went there were 30 women ranging from 26yrs to late 50's, only 2 of them were younger than me, but I ended up dating both of them at the same time. They were probably both HB6 but it was still a big boost for me, especially as the friend that I'd gone with (as he wouldn't go on his own) didnt get any numbers - which both these girls said that he was too quiet and seemed shy.

Just go and enjoy yourself mate, most of the people there are in the same situation as you so there nothing to worry about.

Enjoy!!

 

[Tallerguy]

Speed dating is fun

You have to realise that yes you get to meet loads of girls ready to meet a cool guy like yourself but they are all in test and qualify mode. Upset the balance a little and do something the others guys won’t. Don not worry about doing a venue change on a HB and go for a drink somewhere else after. Also still go for the #close.

Don't play by the rules

Of course you could save your cash and just go to bars and meet people the old fashioned way.