"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Speed Dating Tips

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I love going to these things, I actually get in for free now because the women in charge of this event saw me in action I do not use a score card or dorky name tag I walk with numbers that night. I am working on walking out with a date that night it has worked im trying to perfect it. I have a few tips to share, please feel free to add on.
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1) When you enter let the room know who you are ...a DJ.. when you are in line to sign up have fun with people around you, esepecially herds of women that go togehther to these things.

2) Do not buy a drink go to the table without one, I always get drinks they feel bad your not drinking for some reason..and you can run game on that

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what to say at the table

* I tell them I do not do the score card thing, I take care of things that night...they know if they want me that they have to give me info at the end of the night

*I do different stuff...I wore a turban and did plam reading...wow very very powerful you will be noticed and will get looks from all over. ...the last girl I spoke one night I said I was tired so no reading for her, she was soooo sad and asked how she could get one, I told her if she buys me dinner next door she could maybe have it read...so she said lets go...we went and I read her palm she said I was full of garbage, I told her well I got dinner out of it...anyways it was a great expierence

*I tell them that I am hired to be there to spicen things up, kind of like a hot girl added to attact men. I tell them I need responses for the event, and to see me after by the bar...wow at least half the women stop by and chit chat

* Why are you here, this is for losers like me.....she thinks and I say that I know why you are here to meet someone different and you want that so bad you are willing to pay 35$ and wait 3 months to get in...she says..ohh my how do you know..I can se it in your face

* Movie moment- Tell her that you are done, no reason to talk further, take her by the hand and say let's go

*Why should I choose you, beauty is common what makes you so special

I wil put more later gotta take a dump...speedating is a good way to help those who are new, try game on them it may be weid at first but ahhh you will love it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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