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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Special ?

Enigmatron

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Hi Guys

ive got a question ?

i have always felt i am special and i have be born to do great things, im unique and their is no one else like me, im not big headed or have a big ego but thats how i feel.

well my girlfriend hates this when i say i am special, and she says i am not and gets angry with it, so these days i dont mention it, but im sure it is somekind of attraction and intrigue to her.

i am very talented and i can do many things i am very musical and i play many instruments and i can diagnose and repair a fix alot of electrical items, computers and many other things, so i do feel special, and in what i have to offer to women;)

my question is? :)

do you think she has tried to take this away from me so she is trying to, "take me off the market" say to speak, that by doing this she is, making me think im not special and im like everyone else and other girls wont think im special or unique and that, and by doing this i will get no interest from other girls, because these special things of mine is one of the things what brought my girlfriend to me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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boroda

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Im the same way. I know that im unique and that someday its gonna be my turn to shine. I say just be yourself and enjoy what you do. If something/someone gets in your way (tries to change you, unless you want it) just isolate yourself from that object.
 

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Hi boroda i get what you mean but im refering to her motive ?
 

Lost In Translation

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remember when you were 7 Enigmatron and your mother told you

YOU ARE SPECIAL

she was telling the truth !

never let anyone try and take your special powers from you

:crackup:
 

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This isn't a really a question about girls is it? I see you guys enjoy having talents, thats good. But what your girl really trying to say is that your full of yourself.

but ask yourself this in a german accent "me einstein?" lol

great poeple don't think they are great till its too late. they work work work work work work in the pleasure of work and suddenly out of nor-way they are legends. they die not knowing how great they were because they where still aiming higher while at thier deathbeds.

remember, talk is cheap. neither of u can out do the greats, the legends or leaders. you two will most likey just be footnotes in this great game of life.

so stop thinking your special and start becoming special.

my retarded step cousin thinks his special all the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Enigmatron

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i dont show off or nothing, i keep to myself, and im a very modist person

its just when she says or asks certain things before, that ive said certain things

perhaps im erading to much into it
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
remember when you were 7 Enigmatron and your mother told you

YOU ARE SPECIAL

she was telling the truth !

never let anyone try and take your special powers from you

:crackup:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:



If you think you are better than everyone else you will pull more women than if you think everyone else is better than you. Just remember that.
 
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