"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The key phrase there is, "if they give a shyt".....that's the point, they don't give a shyt lol.

I believe we as Men in today's market are nothing but utility and entertainment to a woman, similar to an appliance. They will use us for the sex, money, laughter, good time, good company and FREE handyman work for as long as they can get the benefits and/or for as long as we are willing to willingly give them out.

The moment we stop providing them or she finds someone that does it "better"....she'll either flat out leave or start acting an A.SS which will cause you to NEXT her (which is what she wants you to do).

Also as a side note, why did you scratch out your face lol? I mean why am I one of the few guys on this site that shows his face around here lol? Why is everybody hiding?
Well hid my face because you're all internet strangers. Privacy. Anonymity.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well hid my face because you're all internet strangers. Privacy. Anonymity.
But what are you keeping your face private for lol? I mean is somebody going to "get you" for coming into the Manosphere?

I guess I just don't get why so many across the Manosphere are extremely hidden. Why can't we network with each other? You can't do that when everybody wants to hide and instead be "usernames" instead of their selves. How much more powerful and effective could we be towards each other, if we did MORE than just come together on a Discussion Forum under hidden usernames? Imagine the networking power we would have, XYZ guy from Sosuave is looking to get into XYZ position, but XYZ other guy from Sosuave is the Manager of said position, bam, instant referral.
 

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so about a month ago I had a ONS with a married chick in her thirties. Met her in a club and she was initially with two friends. Now she was showing no interest in me and was very wary of the presence of her friends. We went to the bar and I kind of strategically lost her friends.....I convinced her to bounce to another place......which ended up being ...just around this corner.....which ended up being my place....a lot of (token) last minute resistence.....and then she got a good banging....trying to tell me she had never cheated before, whether that's true or not is irrelevant...
I find it hard to take serious when a guy that gloat about a ONS with a married chick in her thirties. At the very least go after women in their twenties. By age 30 a lot of women are already going downhill.
 

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Why is it that I've dated so many women who have treated me well, such as my current girl who picks up the tab half the time we go out, fvcks me senseless, and doesn't use me for anything. Like the indian college girl I dated last year, who was super hot yet never used me for anything.


Don't blame others if you pick up trash off the street. Start looking into yourself as to how you are screening women. Are some bad? Sure. But if you stop thinking with tour penis, and start thinking with your brain, you won't have to deal with that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why is it that I've dated so many women who have treated me well, such as my current girl who picks up the tab half the time we go out, fvcks me senseless, and doesn't use me for anything. Like the indian college girl I dated last year, who was super hot yet never used me for anything.


Don't blame others if you pick up trash off the street. Start looking into yourself as to how you are screening women. Are some bad? Sure. But if you stop thinking with tour penis, and start thinking with your brain, you won't have to deal with that.
So true. I tend to gravitate towards women like this. I've learned to treat them more fairly though. I used to really take advantage of them but it's not worth the guilt you feel.

Of course I think I have problems getting close to others.
 
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Reminds me of the standard phrase women use on their dating profiles "If you can make me laugh, you're so-and-so-much in!". When was the last time you saw a man say that? that's because she expects you to entertain her, and men don't say that because they know what their role is too.
But what if you're entertaining each other?
 

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I find it hard to take serious when a guy that gloat about a ONS with a married chick in her thirties. At the very least go after women in their twenties. By age 30 a lot of women are already going downhill.
Gloating? You're wrong, there was no gloating...it was relavent to the discussion. If I wanted to gloat
there's plenty of other situations I could have shared but this was relevant because it had nothing to do with her seeking social value. She wanted sex without consequences. Try improve your reading comprehension skills.

If I were you I'd ask myself why that seemed to bother you......potential for growth there
bro ;) you're welcome.

Furthermore, I find it laughable (and maybe hard to take serious) when another man tries to tell another man what age category he should be fvcking in. She was the same age as me and if a woman looks
good and is dtf I'm hardly going to say to her "oh you're no longer in your twenties? oh I guess we're not going to fvck tonight". Get real, kid.
 

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Gloating? You're wrong, there was no gloating...it was relavent to the discussion. If I wanted to gloat
there's plenty of other situations I could have shared but this was relevant because it had nothing to do with her seeking social value. She wanted sex without consequences. Try improve your reading comprehension skills.

If I were you I'd ask myself why that seemed to bother you......potential for growth there
bro ;) you're welcome.

Furthermore, I find it laughable (and maybe hard to take serious) when another man tries to tell another man what age category he should be fvcking in. She was the same age as me and if a woman looks
good and is dtf I'm hardly going to say to her "oh you're no longer in your twenties? oh I guess we're not going to fvck tonight". Get real, kid.
It doesn't bother me and there's no need for me to improve my reading comprehension skill. It took me 10 seconds to misinterpret a message but takes 10 minutes for you to correct my misinterpretation. Therefore being wrong is easier then being correct. If you get what I mean.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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