"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i wonder. how do we get girls to be clingy. i mean how do we be the guy where girls smile every time they see us?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you have to build attraction and then be aloof a little. That is the condensed version, which is almost impossible to fully break down because attraction and reasons often vary from person to person. A couple posts have attempted to highlight some of the main points (and have done so deftly) Read posts in the HS bibles and DJ Bible about attraction, but first and foremost IMPROVE YOURSELF!
 
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Make eye contact and smile. You know how it is, if someone smiles at you, you smile back, you can't help it. And i don't think you want her to be clingy, it's damn annoying.
 
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Originally posted by dawg89
i wonder. how do we get girls to be clingy. i mean how do we be the guy where girls smile every time they see us?
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One word: charisma.

It's elusive and something you can't really learn, it comes when you're really comfortable in who you are and where you're going in life.

You can't fake charisma for a long time - you've either got it or you don't. See if you can find some stuff on it - it's amazing stuff.
 
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