"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oxide

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Don't end up like me 47 years old and only focused on fvcking for the majority of my life.​
-Player Supreme​

Amen.​
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jimbo2k

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Grechon Weiners said:
I don't know. Is there anything really more important than plowing??
Dumbest thing I've heard all day.

Man, this site breads Man Who*es. Don't get me wrong, you can learn a lot about women...but most guys here are heading in the wrrroooonggggg direction.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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Bettering yourself in every aspect of life so that you succeed. Sex is just one benefit.
 

DjDreamer

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Some things are good for a moment... and fixation on those moments can wreck the future... there is feeling and then there is planning and at times ones feelings can get in the way of ones planning... it's emotion vs reason...
 
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