Spare me the details (thoughts)

[Omen]

So for those of you who haven't heard this song by Offspring, it is called Spare Me The Details. Now here are the lyrics.. (if you can listen to it, you'll get a better idea)

Spare Me The Details
My girlfriend, my dumb donut
Went up to a party just the other night
But three hours later and seven shots of yager
She was in the bedroom with another guy

And I don't really wanna know
So don't tell me anymore
And I really don't wanna hear
About your feet all up in the air

And well I'm not the one who acted like a hoe
Why must I be the one who has to know?
I'm not the one who messed up big time
So spare me the details if you don't mind

Now I can understand friends who wanna tell me
They think they're gonna help me, open up my eyes
But the play by play makes me wanna lose it
Everytime you do it man, it turns the knife

And I don't really wanna know
So don't tell me anymore
And I really don't wanna hear
About your feet all up in the air

And well I'm not the one who acted like a hoe
Why must I be the one who has to know?
I'm not the one who messed up big time
So spare me the details if you don't mind

Now I don't need to hear about the sounds they were makin'
Every time you can hear about how long it was takin'
Or how the walls they were shakin'

Now lying in bed wallowing in sorrow
Missin' the tommorow that we could of had
Running through my head, over and over
Things I never told her that just made me sad

And it drives me insane sittin with a vision
stuck with that image burned into my brain
And it feels so dumb that I could ever trust her
When someone else fvcked her, then walked away

And I don't really wanna know
So don't tell me anymore
And I really don't wanna hear
About her feet all up in the air

And so I'm not the one who acted like a hoe
Why must I be the one who has to know?
I'm not the one who messed up big time
So spare me the details if you don't mind

Cuz I don't wanna know
Don't wanna know
(Spare me the details if you don't mind)
Don't wanna know
(Spare me the details if you don't mind)
Don't wanna know...

Anyway, here is my question. As a guy, when you meet a woman, do things like this run through your mind? Forget having a girlfriend, and if you do, i'm sure you'd be pissed.

But what I was wondering, is how many guys go.. The thought of someone else fvcking her besides me gets to them. You dont want to think about a girl you see or like being nailed by some other dude, but does that cross your mind?

I get like that sometimes, and it just happens. I'm like... Man, some guy prob screwed that one, or even if I do have a relationship with one, it still crosses my mind, or even burned in there just like the song. Then i'm like... Ok, I gotta stop that.

Does this bug you, and what is your thought process behind this? Is it... So what, i'm doing her now?

Just a burning question every time I hear that song on my computer

 

[onyx]

It doesnt bug me at all you can't expect every women you meet to be a virgin...surely its a afc quality to do so.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Only because she's had normal boring sex with other guys before, can she appreciate sex with me.

My hs gf and I were both virgins when we met. Years after we broke up, we hooked up again. She kept saying, "No one else does ___ like you. You're the most ___" yadayada.... The thing is, I probably wasn't any different than I ever was, but she had to have experience with other guys before she could appreciate me.

And the more guys she has been with before you, the more these compliments mean. Tommy Lee once said, "I've been told by a lot of chicks that I have a big d!ck, but I never thought much of it, until I started dating a porn star, ansd she said the same thing. I was like, damn, this girl has seen a lot of d!cks. Maybe I am big."