"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spank your date in the ass?

ScrewIt

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This is pretty interesting really. But this has come across my mind on several occasions.
If your date has high IL and is very comfortable with your kino (especially if she's submissive), then she shouldnt have any problems if you spank her on the ass or let you grab it?
I'd love to, but i wonder how their reaction may be...

Anyone tried?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm going to guess and say that it depends on the girl's flirting. I know that some girls are just asking for it, but there are some that can be of a high IL but...it might be awkward for them to get spanked. >.<

Just my worthless cent.
 

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if you do try it.. i mean.. gauge her first..

but if you do do it - don't do it akwardly!

if you're shes leaving your place, you could give her a tap.. or if you're at a club and she says shes going to the washroom, you could give her a tap..

but don't be standing there having a conversation with her and just randomely grab/tap her..
 

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lmao, If a girl gives me a ****y answer that is sexy I smack her ass or grab it... they love it.

Parties are easiest, the girls that see you afterwards are astounded by your finesse, they see you smack a girl once and take her to bed after you've seemingly been quiet all night and they get shocked...
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
This is pretty interesting really. But this has come across my mind on several occasions.
If your date has high IL and is very comfortable with your kino (especially if she's submissive), then she shouldnt have any problems if you spank her on the ass or let you grab it?
I'd love to, but i wonder how their reaction may be...

Anyone tried?
I did it before .... I played this game with the girl for every wrong answer she will get spanked ! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I do it first with something that isnt my hand. A rolled up magazine, whatever. Call me a *****. I just wont do it directly the first time.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
This is pretty interesting really. But this has come across my mind on several occasions.
If your date has high IL and is very comfortable with your kino (especially if she's submissive), then she shouldnt have any problems if you spank her on the ass or let you grab it?
I'd love to, but i wonder how their reaction may be...

Anyone tried?
Of course I have! They prefer squeezing to spanking in my experience.
 

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Originally posted by aftershock
Of course I have! They prefer squeezing to spanking in my experience.
Yea i'd imagine the same. Unless if you 2 are fvcking like wild rabbits then would it constitute to some good spanking.

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend


This thread just screams "Along came Polly"
haha i loved that scene,

but these are some hilarious replies

Although i was thinking of a more smoother approach, like letting the hands have a mind of their own....kino down from the back..down to the waist..hips...then ass, and leave it there for a few secs and slide it back up to her waist.

Somehow, when girls do it it doesnt justify a bad thing. When guys do it, all they think is the guy just wants booty!
 
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