"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spanish Women in Charge

Señor Fingers

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All of Spain is in a tizzy right now. Apparently the new Secretary of Defense is a pregnant woman! The cabinet is now majority ruled by women and
they even passed a law so that husbands have to do housework! Can you imagine getting fined for not washing your dishes? :p

The topic is certainly not immune to controversy and I'm sure you guys will have a field day here:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/10/06/AR2006100601764_pf.html
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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romangod

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National suicide is all that comes to my mind. Spain has been steadily legislating itself into oblivion.
 

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This always gets me pissed... especially "is telling big companies to give women 40 percent of the seats on corporate boards". If there aren't enough competetive women for those places, why should they hire incompetetive. Also, workhour/meeting restrictions for companies only hinders the progress compared to countries who don't have them.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
All of Spain is in a tizzy right now. Apparently the new Secretary of Defense is a pregnant woman! The cabinet is now majority ruled by women and
they even passed a law so that husbands have to do housework! Can you imagine getting fined for not washing your dishes? :p

The topic is certainly not immune to controversy and I'm sure you guys will have a field day here:

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/10/06/AR2006100601764_pf.html
Having women in power is beside the point as I actually believe in equality when it comes to professions.

My issue here is the law they passed that husbands have to do housework. That's ridiculous and it is getting into the private live of couples.

Perhaps...your salvation would be another 300-600 years of Moros conquering you again.
 

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lol, spain sux ****. I would have left ASAP.
Actually...Spain is one of the very few Countries I would strongly consider making a home. I was very impressed with Madrid and Barcelona. And I know that Spain is like being in 4-5 diffent cultures as each Province is like been in a different country.

The biggest issue I have with most Europeans nations is this "King" and "Queen" crap.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why? Nowadays, the royal families are just money making machines. No power, but tons of attraction for tourists, from say the US of A. ;)
 

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Wow, that sucks for Spain. Why can nobody get this right? Equality is good. That means true equality for everyone, men and women.

But that means equality of opportunity, not equality of results. Dictating what portion of executives must be female or that you MUST hire woman is retarded. Same for any other sort of affirmative action, all it's done in the US is make race relations worse - now people are losing jobs and college spots to someone who hasn't worked as hard because of the colour of their skin. And many people are probably more worried about getting a black lawyer or doctor now than before because now, in the back of your mind, there's always going to be the question of "was he actually good enough for med/law school, or did they just need to fill their quota?".

Its stupid, unfair, and unnatural. Should women/any race/any religion get worse treatment? Of course not. Should we FORCE equality where it does not exist for natural reasons (eg women less likely to put in the work to reach top management), NO. Those that should succeed will, or else the company that discriminates will not be competitive as they will lose their talented minority workers to some company that doesn't discriminate.

And the household chores thing is a joke. I can definitely see some lazy chick sitting at home watching soaps all day, then telling her husband to do housework because it's the law.
 

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I'm sure that goes over well in some of the Muslim households! :moon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spanish(Spain) women are hot. I got a sneak peak during a 9 hr layover at Madrid Airport a couple of yrs back.
 

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here i thought that all european men kidnapped unwilling teenagers when they wanted a bride. seems that it is legal under russian law.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=uM7Gz_2yRx4
as one mother says in the video, "all they can think of is girls with schoolbacks (backpacks)."..."hadi is only 17 but she has already been kidnapped by the same man -twice." talk about persistence. he must be a dj.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=SEk_QNSiEms
raw footage.

ingush and chechens. toughest boys and men on the planet - bar none. they scare the **** out of me. they also scare the **** out of most russians.
 

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Latinoman said:
Perhaps...your salvation would be another 300-600 years of Moros conquering you again.
Hehe.. it would never work out in a country that loves ham so much! Seriously, there are like 5 jamonerias within a 3 block radius of me...wtf!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Señor Fingers said:
Hehe.. it would never work out in a country that loves ham so much! Seriously, there are like 5 jamonerias within a 3 block radius of me...wtf!
wtf! Not everyone lives in Puerta de Sol Fingz!:crazy:

Ham or houshold chores... a tricky choice...............:eek:
 

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Hey, that's great for spain, and thats great for women's rights everywhere that progress is being made. I don't think that there should be necessarily a law saying husband and wife should share housework.. that's very intrusive, but I personally think it should be shared anyway.

My philosophy is I'm 100% pro equality... but when it comes to sarging its all fair game :up: .
 

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I know alot of Muslims. Not a damn one of them is going to do the housework for the wife!
 
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