"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spanish Patterns

Awkward

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When you invent a pattern that you feel are good then please post it here along with any description to the pattern, what it do and when it should be used. It should have been fieldtested before posting.

Write the title in Bold

The embedded commands should be written in CAPITALS so everyone can see how to speak the pattern.

Please don't post unless you have a pattern to add, this is meant to be a archieve of patterns, not a chatroom. Spanish patterns only!


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Speed Seduction Bible

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tryin to Grow a Chin

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I would think it would be difficult to incorporate embedded commands in Spanish, since the imperative verb form is different than the present tense.

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"Chivalry isn't dead; it just smells AFC." - Tryin to Grow a Chin
 

Ricardo

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My experience with girls in Mexico is if you are American or perhaps from elsewhere they are very attracted to you if you are a decent looking guy that tries to talk in Spanish to them.

I find girls from Mexico to be a little less jaded than American girls. They will accept the AFC american guys because they like it as a change to the very machisimo society of Mexico.

On the other hand I think they would respond very well to the imagery of SS if we can translate it correctly.

I feel my Spanish which was learned in this country may not be effective in SS in Mexico as enough things are different.
 

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The Spanish you learn in the United States of America originates from Spain. The language of Mexico is a derivative of the Spanish language but is more influenced by the native indians.

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XANEUS

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sure you can do patterns in spanish... I grant you the verb forms do present an obstacle, but that just means you need to get creative...

cuando realices que ASI SIENTES CON ESTE HOMBRE, YO... creo que.....etc.

in particular it is nice that the usted form is similar to the tu command form in many cases.

En estos tipos de momentos generalmente, (el implied but not spoken) SIENTE MUY ENAMORADA...

see how easy that is... and I'm definitely not even a native speaker.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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