"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spanish Patterns

Awkward

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When you invent a pattern that you feel are good then please post it here along with any description to the pattern, what it do and when it should be used. It should have been fieldtested before posting.

Write the title in Bold

The embedded commands should be written in CAPITALS so everyone can see how to speak the pattern.

Please don't post unless you have a pattern to add, this is meant to be a archieve of patterns, not a chatroom. Spanish patterns only!


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Speed Seduction Bible

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tryin to Grow a Chin

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I would think it would be difficult to incorporate embedded commands in Spanish, since the imperative verb form is different than the present tense.

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"Chivalry isn't dead; it just smells AFC." - Tryin to Grow a Chin
 

Ricardo

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My experience with girls in Mexico is if you are American or perhaps from elsewhere they are very attracted to you if you are a decent looking guy that tries to talk in Spanish to them.

I find girls from Mexico to be a little less jaded than American girls. They will accept the AFC american guys because they like it as a change to the very machisimo society of Mexico.

On the other hand I think they would respond very well to the imagery of SS if we can translate it correctly.

I feel my Spanish which was learned in this country may not be effective in SS in Mexico as enough things are different.
 

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The Spanish you learn in the United States of America originates from Spain. The language of Mexico is a derivative of the Spanish language but is more influenced by the native indians.

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XANEUS

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sure you can do patterns in spanish... I grant you the verb forms do present an obstacle, but that just means you need to get creative...

cuando realices que ASI SIENTES CON ESTE HOMBRE, YO... creo que.....etc.

in particular it is nice that the usted form is similar to the tu command form in many cases.

En estos tipos de momentos generalmente, (el implied but not spoken) SIENTE MUY ENAMORADA...

see how easy that is... and I'm definitely not even a native speaker.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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