MightyMate
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 9, 2005
- Messages
- 1,400
- Reaction score
- 2
Okay lets add im blonde and blue eyes. Maybe that was the thing which they wanted.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I dress differently all the time. I have more than one look, that's one of them. Here's a few more...Originally posted by J.R.G.G
sure you can have some stereotypes, but in the end it all it is individiuality that counts, every girl is different.
I have alot of female friends, mostly latinas, and from experience i can tell that theres no exact preference for latino men. some like black dudes, some dont. the same for goes for caucasion.
bxprince, its not about your race, its about you. i dont know, maybe the way you look or something, some will like it some wont. In my opinion i dont like your style, but if you like it then good for you, i preffer a classier more elegant look, and i have come to understand that the way you dress is what other people digg.
Exactly. I was at a school party n a lot of them wer acting like that. I really do believe that a lot of them give hispanic men an easier time.Originally posted by yrock181
I'm spanish myself, and hispanic girls tend to give hipanic people and easier time then any other race. I was in a party this weekend and i saw that there were mostly hispanic people there, but few people from other race and those were the only people not dancing. I think that they have their ***** shields higher for those who are not part of their race.
You really lack that much confidence?!I was at one point gonna try and make myself look as hispanic as possible. Get a low haircut and make my hair mad curly, get colored contacts, get a similar line up that they get. But I changed my mind.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That was a loooooong time ago. back when I never knew this site even existed.Originally posted by Prophett
You really lack that much confidence?!
Black girls are the same way, they wont even talk to you unless they have interest in you...Thats what makes it easier and harder at the same time, cause if there isnt any intial attraction at all, you cant even get in, but if youre good youre good cause you will know, lol...Its good to know alot of spanish people and hang out with them cause theyll prolly be more receptive to you, thats from my experience...Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
1. If she isn't into you, she will either ignore you completely, or be disrespectful and b!tchy. (Not to be confused with "testing" as I see that word mentioned on this site, she's "testing" you if she's into you, it's "disrespect" if she's not. That should be more clear cut for the DJ's on this site.)
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
true... If only I was still in high school I'd do that. When I was in high school I was always busy doing my own thing so I never really hung out. But I had a lot of spanish friends, mostly males though and those girls in the pics i posted are a few of the females friends I had that were hispanic.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Black girls are the same way, they wont even talk to you unless they have interest in you...Thats what makes it easier and harder at the same time, cause if there isnt any intial attraction at all, you cant even get in, but if youre good youre good cause you will know, lol...Its good to know alot of spanish people and hang out with them cause theyll prolly be more receptive to you, thats from my experience...
I really don't see what anal has to do with it.Originally posted by J.R.G.G
kid, its not about the race, you analize stuff too much,