"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spamming Myself to Women

everywomanshero

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I've been ill for a few days now. Tonight, I just couldn't manage to get up and around. Thus, I decided to SPAM myself to hundreds of women tonight. When I say hundreds, that is probably a conservative number.

I clicked hotornot matches for my city over 300 times. I emailed every attractive woman I could find on dating websites (thus local to my area who had logged in recently). I'm currently researching other means of collecting local email addresses to SPAM such as a phoney local raffle or something.

I figure if I'm willing to approach hundreds of women in public,,, why not try spamming a few THOUSAND online. The idea for the local addresses is perfect because I'll just do a mass mailing and be done with it.

Two ideas that failed: Leaving my number with tips for waitresses and leaving my card on car windows of attractive women. **** it, the direct approach works a lot better! Actually, these two ideas had a 100% failure rate.

There is always something you can be doing no matter what condition you're in. Though, I'll give you it's questionable if this is the best possible use of my time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eric66

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hmmm...I hope you emailed each of them just once. If you filled up their inbox with spam it can be annoying. I personally dont think that was a good Idea..emailing so much women at one time. If they have friends that got the same email they got you might come off a EXTREMELY desparate in the social circle in your area. Did your write anything in the email? If you didn't write anything and just sent like a request of interest or something like a wink or something like with those dating sites have...with no message that just lets them know your interested then your ok. If you wrote anything in the email then IMO i think it was a really bad Idea. So did you write the same in every email? or was it just one of those "wink" ****s those dating site have? What made you do something like this?! edit oh my bad your were sick i forgot heh..

Nobody likes spam man...and as u know most spam just gets ignored..
 

MidnightResistance

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I tried this once.
I sent out 100 messages.
I got 3 back.
2 of which were hot enough.
Of those two 1 was a moron. I stopped with her.
The last one was really cute, so I kept on talking to her.
We had an exchange of about 5 messages each before she deleted her account and vanished.

Get back into the REAL WORLD is what I say
 
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