"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spa Date

DimaDrill

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Hey do you guys think that taking a girl to a spa for our second date is a good idea?

I thought we'd go there get a massage relax a bit, and just get a few drinks in a jacuzzi. The reason is I want to see what this girl is working with, plus its not like most of her other dates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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stalluproar

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If you are trying to get her approval NO. Why do you want to see what she is working with? Now if you set it up like you are going there in the first place and have her join you, go for it.
 

DimaDrill

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why wouldn't I? But you're prolly right it will be tough to get her to go there so soon.
 
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I can think of more entertaining ways of seeing what she's working with than an innocent spa :D

depends on the chick, if she's sensual then she'll probably love the idea. If she's prudish, take her ballroom dancing or something!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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