"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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South Indian: Should I marry if I found my LOVE?

Canadien

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hello guys, so I joined this forum 1.5 year ago, and today for the first time I find myself falling in love with someone that I really care about, and the other person shares the same feelings..

My priorities right now are to get someone who will try new things, and be comfortable under joint family structure, as well as educated to be my better half, and this girl shares all that plus she comes from my own community so we have common understanding amongst each other, in terms of long term goals, and what we hope to achieve..

Still, unlike other love stories, this is binding as I come from South Indian culture, girls are usually married off by the time they're 22 and she's turning 22 next month, still I have gotten 1.5 year of commitment before marriage as she lives in India, and I live in Canada, as I plan to go back there after completing my studies, and getting a good job.

So what do u guys think? Would u guys get married if u found someone to be matching with your standards, and cares deeply about you and will fight this world for your battles, or is it too early?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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romangod

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Marrying someone from your own culture and faith increases your chances for a happy marriage. IMHO Go for it! Cheers!
 

wolf116

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Dude is this the girl that contacted you last month from an online marriage website?? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144172

You're not in love, it's just infatuation.

After you've argued with her, lived with her, had sex with her, seen her take a dump, shared your deepest secrets, cared for her when sick, been shopping with her and tasted her cooking. Then if you still want to be with her, not because of fear or neediness but because of the person she is. Then you can talk about love.
 
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