"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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South Bay / LA Wings

JT47319

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Any intermediate level PUAs in the South Bay who are in their 20s, with good inner game and comfortable with peacocking? This is the beach frat party area of California (ie Hermosa Beach & Manhattan Beach).

I sarge a lot with some Play list members in the Hollywood area, but even I get tired of driving 30 minutes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CapTan SaveAHo

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Yeeahh mann.

Does Sharkeez count as the beach frat party of Hermosa? I went there last sat nite...........that was a grrrrrrrrrreat time.

Where do you usually go ?
 

JT47319

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Yes, Sharkeez is very signature South Bay frat party.

A new nightclub has opened up, Dragon, right next to Sharkeez. Much more Sunset/Hollywood vibe.

Like I said, the Hollywood and South Bay areas are my hunting grounds.
 

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LA for the summer

Hey I am movin to LA for the summer. Dont know anything about LA....I am 21, and down to party. Respond and tell me a little about it. Thanks.
 

JT47319

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Where are you moving to in LA? LA’s a big place. Describe yourself & your game if you don't mind.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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