"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
afc_2_dj
Don Juan
Yeah, I'm unfortunalty in GP when I would rather be at the coast!
I'm no DJ tho!
afc_2_dj
Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
afc_2_dj
Don Juan
I'm in IT, software development and all, thats why I'm here cos this is where the business is.
I've been hanging around here since last year sometime, mostly just randomly browsing when I need to clear my head, some of the threads can be pretty funny! I guess it has helped in a general way, some of the advice is sound, but as with everything it should be taken with a pinch of salt, I also think one must take into account your age, etc I dont think one size fits all. Buts its interesting stuff none the less.
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DJSebast
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I need a wingman, my friends are total AFC's and are not willing to learn.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I was just there. Right there in Gauteng, too. (As well as Bolito, Durban, Heidelberg...)
It would have been mad lekker to have an outing. I'll try to keep in mind for next time, bru's.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Vulpine.
What's up? Got the inkling to dig through our old freeservers site and see if there are others still out there using their old SNs.
The almighty google told me you were active on this site. Since you don't allow PM's (either that or my account is probationary) I figured I'd reply here.
[Taco]'s up,
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
"...Ho's Down!"
DUDE! WTF! A BLAST FROM THE PAST!
...Hold on. Let me get us out of this thread and into something a bit more RL.
... nope. I can't message you yet. Uh... hmmph...
...won't let me e-mail, either. I turned my "allow e-mail" on, but you're probably probationary.
Ok, so we don't continue to hijack this thread, we can take it over to my journal thread in the "Mature Man" forum: it's mine to hijack. FR: The new kid in town - The rebirth of Vulpine
Sh¡t, man, I was just about to log off this site again. You just caught me in a nick of time!
ADMIN: anything you can to help us connect would be greatly appreciated. E-mails, PM's, whatever. This "Puntangerang" dude is legit. His screen name translates as "the ***** you throw away and keeps coming back".
Ok, so here's the deal: I added to your "reputation" and put my e-mail in the comments. If you go to the top of this page, on the far left in the menu bar, the first choice is "User CP". Click that, and, you should get it front and center.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
The word you're looking for is:
Plaasmorde
(You tube playlist, you'll have to sign in to verify >18, or visit the sidebar and try other "less graphic" illustrations of "less than impressed".)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
This is why my eyes will always be wide freaking open when it comes to blacks. At least when they are in a position of power. And if anyone thinks it isn't state-sponsored by the likes of Mandela and Mugabe-types, they are nuts.Vulpine said:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I hope you watched a bunch of that. It blew my mind to see white genocide, going on in modern times!speed dawg said:
I listened to my gal (Afrikaans) try to tell me, but I had a hard time accepting it as reality. It wasn't until I was there, after having listened to her family regale me with stories of smashing/crashing carjacking escapes and police corruption experiences, not hearsay mind you, that it started to be real. We have it better than we know in the states, speed dawg. For them, they shrug it off - it's everyday life, for me...
You remember in the cartoons when two characters would be stuck on a desert island? They always looked at each other at some point and saw a vision of something like a chicken on a spit or some other such delicious morsel, right? Well, my gal was driving us and made a wrong turn. When we ended up in essentially "district 9" sort of shanty town... and the road narrowed to one lane... and was lined on either side with black folks 10-deep on either side of the baakie, and as far as you could see? I felt very much like a pig with an apple in my mouth roasting over the fire. When I looked at my gal, she looked like a huge gold-plated vagina. With hundreds and hundreds of "less than impressed" eyes on us? I remember thinking, "I'd better fight to the death: I don't want to watch what's going to happen to her." A shiny new white truck with two young whites in a sea of long-oppressed black folks? We were about to *PooF*, disappear. You could taste it.
I've never seen her so scared... she took the very next turn to get out of the situation in a panic and... reverted back to driving on the "american side" of the road. ...the road ahead was more of the same. She was physically shaking, she's on the wrong side of the road, and that's when another car came out of nowhere and postured "T-bone" style while she was trying to bust a "Y" turn and go back the way we came. She couldn't light a Chesterfield when we got out of there; she was shaking that bad. I hope I don't have to see her that scared again.
Needless to say, I didn't let her blonde-ass drive after that.
And, my hats off to the gents there: they are a tough breed. Certainly not any douchey american AFC "football with pads" sorts, the lifestyle demands a different presence.:flowers:
I'm crazy for looking forward to the next visit. That, or addicted to the adrenaline rush. Nah... I just want to see more of those hotties! Damn it was nice not seeing so damn many fat people.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
I've often wanted to go to SA and swim with the great white sharks, but I'm not sure the lack of safety is worth it. Maybe that's just my American paranoia. But I know one thing.....I definitely understand how those guys can hate Americans.....we're all being labeled as sh*t-libs who say Zimbabwe like that scene on Blood Diamond. I'd hate people like Charlize Theron too, that got out before Apartheid ended, and now comes back and only helps the blacks. I feel more sorry for middle class whites than I do anyone else. Whites that can't buy their safety.
I guess it's not genocide if they slaughter the blacks at the same clip, which the blacks definitely do to themselves.