"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sound familiar? female version of sosuave

sylvester the cat

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Rules girls never respond on a friday night and never suggest another time! they let the guy try again. (So much for low interest)

http://therulesbook.com/

especially like the way the advert tries to imply kate middleton snagged prince william because of 'the rules'. hogwash. she was handpicked.

no wonder the need for game. we're all being played off one another so someone can sell a book.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dutchmaster

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Lmao... Listen to the song in the commercial. They're trying to brain wash women. Regardless what kinda women would actually buy these books. Guys are throwing d1ck at them 24/7. most likely a fat ugly or personality-less troll is gonna need this book and how much will it really change. I'm sure most of us are at the stage where we can see past a woman's bullsh1t.
 

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How long can a woman resist from acting on her emotions though? If you're pressing the right buttons and her interest is high, won't she forget all that game playing crap? We all know what they are wired to respond to.
 

El Suave

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No worries. Most of them don't have the discipline to follow rules!
 

VladPatton

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El Suave said:
No worries. Most of them don't have the discipline to follow rules!

Hahaha, so true! She'll justify breaking The Rules to her sisterhood at the drop of a hat: "But he had such a cute haircut, I couldn't resist!!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hmmmmm... Women have scientifically and Don Juanie shown to be very emotional. Which suggests that all these "logical" tricks to manipulating a guy will fly out the window the minute they meet someone who knows how to stimulate their emotions.

The tools are always out there but you need to know how to handle them right.
 

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El Suave said:
No worries. Most of them don't have the discipline to follow rules!
cos most of the ones that would read and try to follow the rules are too ugly to be picky.
 
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