Sosuaves the Answer?

[sgssosexii]

Before I begin allow me to introduce myself. I heard about sosuave through a friend that was going through some tough girl problems about a year back. I myself was not suffering from any, however I believe that knowledge is power and any information I can gain on a interesting subject will be gladly obtained. With that much said I began posting on sosuave last yr. Obviously I made a new account, but let me skip the introduction and get right to the point.


Guys I am simply concerned for the majority of the people on this website. The more I read these modern post, the more I see people asking for a way to bail themselves out of a situation that they have gotten into. The thing is ITS SIMPLE STUFF!!!!....I thought about responding with some advice to posters instead of writing this as a whole, but theres simply to many. So for example I was reading a post that said " I have 5mins to get a girls number in the morning, WHAT DO I DO?

Basically what im trying to say, is that unless you have an i-phone you will not be able to refer to your "urgent (help me)" post!, GUYS YOU DONT NEED ME OR ANYONE ELES!, you have it in you, whats the purpose of living? to reproduce with a mate of your choosing!....NOW GET OUT THERE AND CHOOSE!....II WOULD SAY DONT LET ME DOWN, BUT YOU WOULDNT BE,....... DONT LET YOURSELF DOWN!!!!!

AMEN!

 

[Fred Da Head]

You know, I've been thinking the same thing. It's one of the reasons I only sporadically pop up, post for a few weeks, then disappear again.

In the old days (the days of Pook, Anti-Dump, DIESEL, etc), it was about self-improvement AND getting women; most of it was really just how to make your inner game strong, which would just help with women. Now it's turned into some kind of pseudo-SS-type community where everyone wants to know a routine, a step-to-step guide on how to pick up any girl and get her in bed in no time.

It's a sad state of affairs... but can SoSuave really be saved?

 

[sgssosexii]

Well it is up to those who this thread applys to, otherwise I dont see sosuave being renewed(if you will)

 

[Ace of Flames]

The way I see it, if people aren't willing to put in the work to make their own life better, then they deserve their misery. Don't bother trying to save them. The guys who really take this stuff and apply it to their life are the only ones we should concern ourselves with anymore.

 

[SickAgain]

I don't really think most of the routine or "there's this one girl..." sh!t is any good advice. But I do think this board is helpful for the fact its kind of like a support group. It helps build confidence, and it gets you in the game. Even if it is bad advice, you would still use it, which is good because you're socializing with chicks on a different level i.e. getting your feet wet. Without this board I bet a lot of guys would still be scared to talk to a girl who they find attractive and "think" they like.

 

[nevergiveup]

yeah I've learn a **** load from SS already and have been applying it to my life... I love people who read all this but never put it to use.. wtf is up with that. It's usually the same people who go god im such a fatass but won't bother going to the gym or doing anything.. pathetic.

 

[Fred Da Head]

The way I remember it, it was a place where most guys were already improved and just shared inside tips to unique circumstances, like how to pick up women during a business trip from Moscow to Paris and Amsterdam in three weeks.

Now it's, "I've been with this girl for 76 weeks. Does she like me?"

Hey... weren't you that guy that did that Hillbilly thing for a while? That was hillarious.

Hey hey hey, it's HillWilliam to you, Mister! ..Seriously though, I'm not sure what you're refering to, but it's always a possibility it was me. I've done a lot of stuff.

I agree it was mostly guys who already knew their stuff, but the new guys tended to actually learn from the good guys, and not just, as you say, ask about some girl they've been seeing, or "I see this girl in class all the time, how do I break the ice?" Either way, the old SoSuave was a place where people who knew their stuff talked, and those who didn't listened (for the most part). Now it's just everyone talking... probably because those who really knew their s**t left.

 

[sgssosexii]

well my friend "slick", you see the only problem i have with what you said (dont get me wrong it is good to have a concrete source of motivation) is when people are just getting their "feet wet", and they could be scoring big, and dont even realize it. You see you should aim a bit higher, dont settle for the minimum. Shoot for the stars!, because if you get half way their, its better then just boarding the shuttle (pun intending)

 

[sgssosexii]

sticky material!