Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sosuave

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i see post after post nowadays saying how crap the forum is getting, now i will not denye it, the site does have its problems but if you are just going to post thread after thread of articles telling us how crap the site is, why dont you just fcuk off! know one is forcing you to be here so if you dont like it just go, dont start posting threads on how crap the site is, because all you are doing is ocntribuiting to the crap you are complaining about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DeathDealer

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usually those type of people have nothing to contribute.
 

waldo

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I still find the forum a pretty good read, but maybe that's cos I ignore all the pointless posts that pop up on a daily basis. I guess it's like junk-mail, in the end you get used to filtering it out without thinking about it:)
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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i also find it good, i mena sure theres a bit of crap and days with no good posts but all in all its good. even with its ups and downs
 

MVPlaya

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Ehhh...

I look at SoSuave this way. It won't turn you into a player. But if you dig deep you can break off a lot of the problems you had before coming here. Becoming a player is something you need to do on your own, and can't be accomplished by reading a bunch of randomly selected articles by some dude you don't know who may or may not have a clear understanding of DJing.

mASF on the other hand... lets just say I like it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dukester

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wow, i just hopped on the boards today, and omg, crap!
i know this has been going on forever, but i couldnt believe how much was on the site today. i took about 5 days of the boards, and giving advice for the holidays.

now i'm back- and disgusted.

but hey- i'm here to offer valuable advice to all you guys. just dont post stuff that can be looked up using SEARCH, or stupid newb posts.

thanks for keeping the boards clean
 

Wiesman44

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Really newb posts disgust me also, but keep in mind there's nothing better than hearing advice about your own problems. Reading about someone elses problems and applying it to yourself just isnt the same. Now if this sh#t can be found in the dj bible, i have no sympathy for them. Go freakin' search.
 
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