"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To all the people who post meaningful things on Sosuave,

Although right now it would seem like im a new, i have been a part of this community for a while, i just havent come on in about a year and i was banned for "reason: none". anyways, i just wanted to say thank you! This website has a lot of losers on it, and a lot of total bs, but there are some very good and inspirational articles on here, and it has helped me to transform my life. I came here searching for women, and I found myself. I got in touch with who i really am, what my real dreams are (money and bullsh!t aside) and this website played a HUGE role in that.

By no means am i now a "ladies man", i can still be intimidated by girls (ironically only the ones i have crushes on!) but I have made a huge transformation. i dont sit on my ass and play video games, i dont moan and complain about how ****ty my life is, and im not awkward in social situations. very recently a good friend of mine called me "the life of the party" something i have never been called before.

Now im confident (for the most part), i have dreams, i set goals, i usually achieve them, im more at ease, and i accept myself. I feel like im truly at peace for once, know what im doing, and just where im headed.

So thanks again to all of you who were supportive and gave real advice, you really helped me.

:rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First you need to congratulate yourself and your ability to admit that you are not yet where you want to be but you're running up the path of elightenment in search of your true purpose.

There is quite alot of bullsh!t but also some real gems if you search for and internalize that which you can relate to.
 

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canadianmetalhead said:
Now im confident (for the most part), i have dreams, i set goals, i usually achieve them, im more at ease, and i accept myself. I feel like im truly at peace for once, know what im doing, and just where im headed.
Well done CMH!

Over this past week I have come to realise something that I hope will change my life for the better. I need to set goals for myself. I have realised everybody needs goals to focus the mind instead of feeling out of control with life.
 

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amen to that brother ahah, just about sums up this forum at the moment
 
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look at page 2 of DjDan's thread, about 6 people chime in that dan is fake and a loser, simply because he's got a girl talking as if he owns her

CHUMPS bringing this place down

next thing you know, me, Dan, TheRealSupreme, lookyoung, Chrizz, and Krazyboy69 will all get banned, so as to not ruin the CHUMP balance here
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Welcome back and congratulations on your progress. Now that you know about the chumps, just ignore their stupid advice, don't bother egging them on in debate.

How old are you my fellow canuck?
 
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thanks alot guys, im 19 soon to be 20
 
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just one more thing, these "trolls" and "chumps"...arent these the guys that should be getting help? were we not once all like them?
 

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Yes we were all chumps. However there seems to be a small gang of guys around here spewing female type agendas. Oh you should be nice to her blah blah blah. The trolls are another story, they are just here for entertainment.
 
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