"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sosuave Survey...Virginity Debate.

Thatfeel21

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What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? 18, no relationship

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? Honestly, not at all. Society and pornos make it a big deal.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? 3 or 4 mos. The chick LJBF me, but we were best friends 2 begin with. She broke up with her bf, and BAM there i was for the rebound sex!

How long have you been having sex? 8 years

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? Yup, we are still close friends to this day. She has 2 kids now, so would i hit again? Prob not.

Do you generally brag about having sex? Not at all. Ppl who brag about it, tend to get it the least. Trust me, other men can tell if a certain guy is getting laid or not, just by the way he carries himself.

Is sex overrated? In a way it is. But I havent been in a drought in almost 3 years lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?

18, almost 19. She was my first girlfriend and we had dated a few weeks before having sex.

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?

It was a big deal in the beginning, but you get used to it and it becomes normal and common.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?

With my girlfriend at the time, the next day. And pretty much every day for a long time. With a new girl it wasn't until we broke up almost 4 years later, when i was 22.


How long have you been having sex?

11 years.

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?

She is engaged and has a kid. I haven't seen her for plenty of years, but she is still pretty hot so probably yes.

Do you generally brag about having sex?

No, When i talk about sex with my friends we are much more likely to talk about awkward, embarresing or rude stuff that happened during sex rather than bragging about good sex. It's more entertaining to hear about a drunken ONS with a warpig than hearing about a lovemaking session with a girlfriend.

Is sex overrated?

Yes and no. It's overrated when you have easy access like when you are in a relationship or have several plates spinning. When you don't get any it becomes a big deal all of a sudden.
 

dutchmaster

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What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?
- I lost my virginity at 18, nope I wasn't.

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?
- Not at all, it was so blown up in my head then once I had I was like that's it? It felt good of course but I imagined way better, so I just treat it casually now. It's only a big deal if you make it one.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?
- About 2 weeks, same girl.

How long have you been having sex?
- About 8 months now

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?
- If she wants to fvck then sure lol

Do you generally brag about having sex?
- No and yes I don't see it as a big deal or anything so I see no reason to brag to anyone, except when I'm using c&f jokes to girls I've fvked already.

Is sex overrated?
- No, it feels great and it's fun.
 

Fly By Night

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Virgin here:

What age would you have ideally lost your virginity?
-I would have wanted to lose it at 18, but at 16 I pretty much had the best opportunity in the world to get it. Couldn't because of strict parents.

How much of your time is spent actively seeking sex?
-Almost none, I don't put too much pressure on having sex. When I talk to women, it's just to sharpen my skills; if sex is a possibility then I'd go for it.

How much pressure would you say society has placed on you when it comes to trying to have sex for the first time?
-I think too much. T.V. shows make men desperate for it and after they get it, the other male characters in the show treat him like a king.

How many of your other close friends are virgins?
-Well I have a mixture between "alpha" and "beta" close friends, they are obviously not virgins and are virgins, respectively.
 

Purefilth

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1. 15 in a relationship
2. Yrs still a big deal
3. After the first girl and I broke up, probably about 6 months
4.10 years
5. Yes
6. With mates, but mostly its jokes
7. I think its on a pedastal, unnecessarily so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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