I've read that most of the decision making process is unconscious. In other words, most of the things we are taking into effect when we make decisions we do without realizing we do it.
So that's pretty much the best part about the DJ bible and this community. I (like most guys) came here looking for a quick fix. I read the bible and though, "OK, I've got this down now. I can do this," but it took a lot longer than that. I had to reread the bible and read a lot of posts on what works and what doesn't. I had to make it second nature (because for an AFC, this stuff is NOT natural)
I had to make doing all of this stuff so natural for me that I didn't even necessarily consciously think about WHY I was doing alot of the things I was doing around women.
And it's really paying off now. I've gotten to the point where once I've gotten a girl to agree to a first date I know its already over. I just have to go through the motions at that point, because I know what to do and how she'll likely react to it.
I'm also learning how easy most of this really is. I used to not understand how the guys who were pulling the chicks were doing it. But recently I've discovered that all you really have to do is be unafraid to make the first move. So long as you're reasonably assured that this girl is into you, you just have to grab your balls and kiss her.
The best part is you don't even have to be smooth or suave when you do it! If a girl is into you she will make it easy for you as long as you're willing to make the first move.
Because really, even though you have to make the first move, girls make it pretty obvious that they are willing to let you do such a thing.
So basically I'm writing this to let everyone know that everything you need to know you can get from this site. And I wanted to stress the importance of making a move, even if it's not so suave.
So that's pretty much the best part about the DJ bible and this community. I (like most guys) came here looking for a quick fix. I read the bible and though, "OK, I've got this down now. I can do this," but it took a lot longer than that. I had to reread the bible and read a lot of posts on what works and what doesn't. I had to make it second nature (because for an AFC, this stuff is NOT natural)
I had to make doing all of this stuff so natural for me that I didn't even necessarily consciously think about WHY I was doing alot of the things I was doing around women.
And it's really paying off now. I've gotten to the point where once I've gotten a girl to agree to a first date I know its already over. I just have to go through the motions at that point, because I know what to do and how she'll likely react to it.
I'm also learning how easy most of this really is. I used to not understand how the guys who were pulling the chicks were doing it. But recently I've discovered that all you really have to do is be unafraid to make the first move. So long as you're reasonably assured that this girl is into you, you just have to grab your balls and kiss her.
The best part is you don't even have to be smooth or suave when you do it! If a girl is into you she will make it easy for you as long as you're willing to make the first move.
Because really, even though you have to make the first move, girls make it pretty obvious that they are willing to let you do such a thing.
So basically I'm writing this to let everyone know that everything you need to know you can get from this site. And I wanted to stress the importance of making a move, even if it's not so suave.