"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sosuave should have a self-help/inner-game category

john_1234

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you know the categories: don juan tips, anything else, mature man, health, etc... what about self-help and inner-game? it's always discussed in other categories; and since it's something that's always discussed, something we all touch base on at one point or another, i feel it should have a forum all to itself
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chickenlegs03

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no offense...but I think sosuave has more than enough to get you on your feet with everything that's here. sosuave shouldn't be your babysitter.

all i'm saying is as long as you go out and be social and apply what you read, you should need too much sosuave in your life...things will fall into place
 
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