"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AlexKaiser

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I noticed that a couple links I get from the newsletter and their links are selling products. Watched a couple webinars on the Tao of Badass and the UnlockHerLeg's Scrambler, and saw that they wanted to sell their tips and secrets on how to score girls.

However as one who saw through the B.S. of "get thin quick" webinars and notice all of their techniques on how to get their customers to buy their product, I got skeptical and suspicious. A good 5 minutes of talking and tips, then a "order now" button accompanied with reviews and testimonials. Same stuff Isagenix and other weight-loss programs pitched.

The sayings "If you're good at something, never do it for free" and "Never reveal everything you know." always ring in my head when people are selling dating advice and techniques. However, they follow the same formula and it got me worried that its a chump-orientated cashcrab.

So, have you guys ever paid money for stuff like Scrambler or Tao of Badass? Are these PUAs/Gurus looking to make money on beginner level/common sense advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I never bought into it. They don't have anything revolutionary to give in return that can't be found with a 2 minute Google search.

Chumps are naive and looking for quick solutions to difficult problems. These scammers know this and market accordingly. It is a cashgrab with marketing to exploit such men's insecurities, exactly the same way weight loss products are advertised towards people insecure about their weight.

With weight the solution is commonly known, effective and might even save money (buying less food). All you'd have to do is eat less and move more, there's no way to continue eating, not moving and still lose weight. With women the solution is also commonly known, effective and free. All you have to do is get out, talk to women, learn from that experience and push through fears. There is no way to avoid getting out there, not talking to women, not learning and still have success with them.

Basically they're trying to sell common sense to weak minded people. So you're absolutely correct in your thinking about it.
 
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