"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sosuave ;Needs a Sociality Forum !!

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Sosuave ;Needs a Sociality Forum !!

being a dj is one thing but what about the basic social skills.
there should be a new section for DJ's t odiscuss
being social ,talking in public,attaining power ,making friends,winnig.ect.
vote>yes

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by laskoe:
Sosuave ;Needs a Sociality Forum !!

being a dj is one thing but what about the basic social skills.
there should be a new section for DJ's t odiscuss
being social ,talking in public,attaining power ,making friends,winnig.ect.
vote>yes
This whole site is a sociality forum.



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Though the idea of posting help on this subject is great, I don't think we need a whole forum for that.

It would be great, though, if people would start posting stuff like that in the Tips forum, for example.
 

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talking in public,attaining power ,making friends,winnig

make the connection !!

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