Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sosuave is a WONDERFUL site.......except for one thing

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ignore all new posts - they are all useless

if you want to find really wonderful posts, all you need to do is go to TIPS, and sort threads by rating - thats pretty much it

people coming on here saying sosuave sucks are LOSERS who dont know wtf they are smoking, cuz all u gotta do is search some old threads and u'll realize how great sosuave is.

Currently, the discussion part of this site is AWFUL and a huge joke, but you gotta know how to filter in order to make the best of it.


As it stands, sosuave is still the best site out there when it comes to useful information about women and dating - you just gotta search for it properly!!!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what kinda loser ignores useful information just based on the # of posts someone has??

what a homo
 
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Obsidian, this is what I am talking about dude, lol.

Here you talk about nobody adding to the forum, this poster was adding someting, and you log in, click on this thread, click on reply, put your keyboard in place, and type NOTHING.

NOTHING.

And YOU are calling people trolls? YOU are trying to find and pick people out of the crowd that add NOTHING to the forum.....when YOU yourself have added NOTHING!

Where's your informational posts, where's your experiences? How about the next time you log in, click on a thread.....how about you post something that could be useful that maybe I could learn something off of.

Don't tell me it's all been posted, because there's so much more to discover about life that it's crazy.

I'm waiting......
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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The discussion part is a real joke... makes me wonder about the actual exoeruence of the people currently discussing...

Haven't seen anyone going through a bootcamp in a while... think I'll start one just for the f@ck of it. Will have to lower some goals just from lack of time to spare, but it's all good.

This is a good point there pimpaholic, even tho you only have 2 posts, it at least shows you're reading and hopefully taking steps in the field to make this work for yourself.

Obsidian, I still flip flop in my opinion about you also... I mean, you've posted an average almost 2 posts a day for the past year, sometimes you write some good posts, but then other times you post things that would make someone wonder as to your actual real life experience. One way or the other, I don't really care how much game you really got, it's more to figure out how much weight to give any advice that you might offer.
 

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I agree 100%

The archive and tips have priceless gems.

The forum is a bit of fun and a good dumping ground.

But there really is nothing new discussed here that isn't talked about in archives, tips or bible.

Still I don't understand why people get all upset about things written in the forum anyway. It is an INTERNET FORUM after all... Whatchoo all expect?

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JJ I think the problem and the reason that nothing new is really posted here, is because the QUALITY POSTERS HAVE STOPPED POSTING.

They no longer post, becasue when they do, they are met with tons of replies from people that shouldn't be replying. People call them names, cursing, etc., it's the immaturity of this forum that shouldn't be here.

And why do I care? Because this forum has helped me in a lot of ways. I would NOT be where I am today as a person if it wasn't for this forum, there was NO OTHER PLACE in the world I was going to find the information I found here.

So hell yeah, I think the moderators need to stop the immaturity going on here, it makes no sense. This forum is MUCH MORE than just a "forum," this is a place of healing, deliverance, and prosperity.

There's not many places in the world like this forum, and by just ALLOWING immature to continue here, we are all STUCK with just reading PAST POSTS, and not getting any fresh, new, life changing information from Quality Posters TODAY.

And that is what makes me sick. If the damn moderators can BAN ME 3 TIMES, because some guy emails them and says, "Ban John's account." Then they could get off their azzes and stop the immaturity around here....but they don't give a damn themselves...
 

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I wouldn't say the quality has stopped, i'd say everything has pretty much been convered. You can only cover things like eye contact so much
 
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I wouldn't say everything rebel.....

From where I come from, I have experiences...you have experiences....

We get to a great forum when there's a number of guys making threads with those experiences, and who can interpret and explain those experiences in a way that we all can learn from.

THE PROBLEM is that it's no longer welcomed here so the guys just won't post. When they post, they are met with all of these dumb immature remarks that have nothing to do with topic at all!

They are met with 15 guys calling them a girl, demadning that they stop posting, requesting pictures, requesting a birth certificate, requesting bank information, and all this other crap that has nothing to do with the post.

All I am saying, is that if the moderators can ban me 3 times because a guy is emailing them and requests that I be banned,....then they could take the time and make some NEW RULES around here.

I'm telling you, once those NEW RULES are in play, the QUALITY will increase again. That can ONLY make everybody on this forum BETTER.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So pimp its scary said:
Haven't seen anyone going through a bootcamp in a while... think I'll start one just for the f@ck of it. Will have to lower some goals just from lack of time to spare, but it's all good.
I would help you out, but first off, I'm leaving the site in mid-May, and the other problem is that I just got a new girlfriend. So, i don't think it would be good for me to do a bootcamp. Best of luck though.

comic_relief
 

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Jay Jay said:
The archive and tips have priceless gems.

The forum is a bit of fun and a good dumping ground.

But there really is nothing new discussed here that isn't talked about in archives, tips or bible.

Still I don't understand why people get all upset about things written in the forum anyway. It is an INTERNET FORUM after all... Whatchoo all expect?

JJ


yo, Discussion Forum = "hi, what do i do? flame me, you will be entertained"

the whole purpose of sosuave is what sosuave used to be


90% of the best advice is at least 3 years old
 

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DJF or John Again said:
JJ I think the problem and the reason that nothing new is really posted here, is because the QUALITY POSTERS HAVE STOPPED POSTING.

They no longer post, becasue when they do, they are met with tons of replies from people that shouldn't be replying. People call them names, cursing, etc., it's the immaturity of this forum that shouldn't be here.

And why do I care? Because this forum has helped me in a lot of ways. I would NOT be where I am today as a person if it wasn't for this forum, there was NO OTHER PLACE in the world I was going to find the information I found here.

So hell yeah, I think the moderators need to stop the immaturity going on here, it makes no sense. This forum is MUCH MORE than just a "forum," this is a place of healing, deliverance, and prosperity.

There's not many places in the world like this forum, and by just ALLOWING immature to continue here, we are all STUCK with just reading PAST POSTS, and not getting any fresh, new, life changing information from Quality Posters TODAY.

And that is what makes me sick. If the damn moderators can BAN ME 3 TIMES, because some guy emails them and says, "Ban John's account." Then they could get off their azzes and stop the immaturity around here....but they don't give a damn themselves...


u and i are the same

we post WONDERFUL EYE OPENING advice (u especially), and then people are really AFC about it and flame on everything.......and then we get pissed, and we say "**** u sosuave, BAN ME"

and we get banned

BUT

we love sosuave, this is a beautiful place for information, u just have to look for it


there is NOTHING here if u go to the main forum and read the new stuff
 

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Yes, I would agree with that. I was actually going to mention that, experiences that is. There are some knowledgeable people here that know the game well and have generally been through it all, so they have lots to offer to newer people who may have just found the site.

Mechanics wise, I think everything you need to know has been covered. How a girl behaves, what it means, it's covered somewhere, generally in the tips section.

DJF, I do like that you mentioned newer people who come on here and get berated, scorned etc. because they may have asked something that has been covered many times before....and I made a post about this earlier....I don't know what is up with this negativity stuff man. As a community we should help each other, not bring down each other. I have seen lots of that (i'm a long time lurker) and I am really shocked that people can actually do that sorta thing when most of us were like that at some point. Chances are if someone is new on this site, they are probably young or haven't had much experience so you have to have patience. When you tear their post apart it doesn't help him at all and only discourages the person from ever improving. It's like that old saying if you tell someone their stupid enough, they'll believe it...and they could be one the most knowledgeable people around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NO. You got it all wrong. Material in all posts is pretty much repost of things said before, but in op's own words, i.e. his own perspective, coming from his own reality.


Pimping is a state of mind, not a technique. You can't just read and learn, you have to adopt the thinking, and it's different for every one. Thus you get posts that say the same thing, but differentely.
 
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