"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What level are you in the game?

  • I'm a forever aloner

    Votes: 3 27.3%
  • I'm a noob--less then 50 total approaches

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • I'm an intermediate--decent game

    Votes: 6 54.5%
  • I'm a Boss--no problems opening closing, i gets puzzy!

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • legendary Status--why da fucc you here?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    11

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
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Are you forever alone?

never had a girlfriend?

Never kissed a girl?

scared to approach

sign up here for the challenge

beginning August 15th, I will post everything I know on seduction including so you will succeed and become a Saiyan, a Jedi, a Don Juan

:trouble:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal_water

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2012
Messages
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1 (ex)girlfriend, kissed 1 girl (guess who) virgin

Challenge, what are you on about?
 

crossedup

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2009
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129
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6
Kissed many girls, sex 4 times. Hookups, almost always when drunk and from college parties.

No girlfriend ever, hardly ever approach. Game is decent when I do get the balls to actually make moves. I can't translate anything to longer term. Dunno what I'm going to do now that I am out of school.

And yeah, I see no challenge associated with this
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

Don Juan
Joined
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Location
Toronto
Keen to read this!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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