"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Sosuave forevarlone alone challenge sign up

What level are you in the game?

  • I'm a forever aloner

    Votes: 3 27.3%

  • I'm a noob--less then 50 total approaches

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • I'm an intermediate--decent game

    Votes: 6 54.5%

  • I'm a Boss--no problems opening closing, i gets puzzy!

    Votes: 1 9.1%

  • legendary Status--why da fucc you here?

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    11
Solomon

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,564
Reaction score
4,136
Location
Inside her mind
Are you forever alone?

never had a girlfriend?

Never kissed a girl?

scared to approach

sign up here for the challenge

beginning August 15th, I will post everything I know on seduction including so you will succeed and become a Saiyan, a Jedi, a Don Juan

:trouble:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

E

Eternal_water

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2012
Messages
899
Reaction score
51
1 (ex)girlfriend, kissed 1 girl (guess who) virgin

Challenge, what are you on about?
 
C

crossedup

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2009
Messages
129
Reaction score
6
Kissed many girls, sex 4 times. Hookups, almost always when drunk and from college parties.

No girlfriend ever, hardly ever approach. Game is decent when I do get the balls to actually make moves. I can't translate anything to longer term. Dunno what I'm going to do now that I am out of school.

And yeah, I see no challenge associated with this
 
M

Mr.SomeoneElse

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2012
Messages
132
Reaction score
11
Location
Toronto
Keen to read this!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top