"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sosuave.com at workplace.....

CrocodileHunter

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This is regarding this weeks article "Dating Tips for the Shy Guy"

Some of us access this site from the workplace.

Would it be possible to avoid linking to site's involving cartoon nudity?

I don't want to be cautious everytime I click on a link here....There's enough of that stuff elsewhere...

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This should be moved to 'Suggestions and Feedback'.

But I know what you mean. I had the exact same prob yesterday.
 
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