"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SoSuave Can Be Like A Drug

Futuristic

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Fellow SoSuavers,

I've only recently started posting on here, but have been reading stuff on this site for about a year. During that time I've read many great and inspirational posts here, and I'm glad that I found this place. But I can't really tell you what I have learned from any of these posts or how it has impacted my life, because I NEVER TOOK ACTION :mad: I would come here just about every day, sometimes several times a day, and read post after post. Thoughts would spring into my head "Man, that's a great post", "I can do this", "I'm ready to make some changes in my life", "Talking to girls is the easiest thing in the world", and so on.
I would keep reading until I felt I was satisfied and log off. But soon after I left the site these feelings would disappear. I would resort to my normal AFC chump self and never improve. I felt compelled to keep coming back to the site and reading more great posts to get those feelings back; I was trying to fill a void. The void of HAVING WOMEN AND CREATING THE LIFE THAT I TRULY WANT.
There are a select few members of this site as of late, such as Syncmaster, JC Jerkson, Animal Crackers, Shezzler, and a handful of others that can afford to rest on their laurels a bit because they've BEEN IN THE GAME and are MAKING PROGRESS. Maybe these guys aren't master don juans yet, but they certainly aren't AFC kbj's either. They are contributing their knowledge that they have learned while IN THE FIELD and are truly helping.
Becoming a Don Juan and learning how to be a success with women is like being a rookie quarterback in the NFL. Generally the rookie will sit on the bench and watch the veteran qb lead the team in hopes that he will learn as much as he can so that the game will slow down for him. Then the coach will put him in when he feels he is ready. But the rookie doesn't really learn anything until HE IS PLAYING THE GAME HIMSELF. Yeah, he will make a lot of MISTAKES AND BAD PLAYS at FIRST, but he will LEARN from them and hopefully turn into a GREAT PLAYER. Once he becomes CONFIDENT and COMFORTABLE in HIMSELF there will be more WINS and TOUCHDOWNS than INTERCEPTIONS and LOSSES. Once he is a SUCCESS his life will IMPROVE TENFOLD. He'll get that multimillion dollar contract, and everyone will RESPECT him and want to BE AROUND HIM. But you have to realize your UNFULFILLED POTENTIAL and DARE TO BE GREAT.
I will not be posting on this site again until I get INTO THE GAME and can provide FIELD REPORTS of my experiences, or to provide a useful tip or something I learned while sarging. Until then I will only come here to check my pm's from time to time. I promise I will be back sooner than later. I've let life pass me by for too long and I'm ready to change. Let's all make 2006 a happy new year and make this site a great place to be.
:woo:

Later brothers,
Futuristic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One final note:
Yeah, I decided to do Aftershock's 2006 bootcamp. I think it's better that way, to give each other motivation and encouragement. I plan on giving myself a bit of a rock and roll makeover too. Earrings, tattoos, cool haircut, etc. Maybe a little peacocking mixed in as well. I'm a good looking guy but my styles a bit plain and needs some edge to it. I think this can help improve my game Alright, I won't be back until I approach at least one girl. Late.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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