I ask because this forum helped me put things into perspective when I was cheated on and saved my dignity when you guys teached me to not give a ***** any kind of validation after a break-up. The pain and the lesson, I had to go through them in order to learn, but the framework to know what was happening, why it was happening and what should I expect in the future was giving to me by SoSuave.
So now that I'm learning game, the pain of rejection, the happiness of success, and the field lessons, I will go through them alone, but I have my trust put in the framework that the DonJuans might want to share with me. If not, this forum wouldn't even exist, and we all would go around like blind people without a guide.
This is one of oldest philosophical problems btw, that of virtue being teachable or not. The answer, in my opinion, is yes and no; you have to be a natural in order to learn how to actualize that dormant potential. So in reality you are just remembering it, lol.