"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bandolero

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Since I am getting older and most of my friends are in a Relationship or married with kids, it is hard to plan on things hence why I started to go on vacations by myself.

This could be a thread where a member is leaving his plans for a trip to join.

This is kinda sus I know, but I think most of us are leaning in the same direction and that's why I came to the conclusion that it would benefit the most meeting up sometimes.

Let me know if this sounds like a good idea to you guys or if I am being stupid here.

I am in Dubrovnik Croatia for the sommer
17-31 July.

In December I am planing to visit Warschau, Poland and Kaliningrad, Russia where I've already been two years ago.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bandolero

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There are pictures of me on this site.

Yeah Odessa was last Year .
This year I'll explore Prague
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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